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[–] 33 points 1 month ago (1 child)

I have no idea if this is the right modality with which to get through to you, but it worked for me: look up schema therapy. My tests flagged with the defectiveness/shame schema, which is exactly what this post is describing - the belief that you are fundamentally broken and unfixable, and you should feel ashamed of that. If that resonates, just do an internet search. You are not alone in this, and it can get better. I won't say that it will get better, because that part is up to you. But it can.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 month ago* (2 children)

    I think I am missing something that makes me catgirl 😞

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago

    So much this.

    But yeah, missing a few essential human pieces is actually kinda no big deal, 'cuz all you need to make up for it is a few people who can accept you as you are.

    I gave up on being people years ago, but since I found my persons, they've helped me blossom in ways I'd never imagined could be real. =O

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    I basically said this to my therapist and she changed the subject. Sigh.

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    [–] 9 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    ✨️✨️✨️Alcohol ✨️✨️✨️

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago

    Depends on what being human means to you: Human in the biological sense? Unless this was written by AI you're human. Human in the sense that you deserve human rights and dignity? Definitely human. Human in the sense that you are part of a society? Yup. Human in the sense of gender etc.? Not necessarily, unless you want to be, then yes! Human in the sense that you deserve love and care and can give love and care to others? Correct, human! And guess what, not feeling human is something many humans feel, sometimes or even all the time, so I'd say that's a human trait, too. Take care, from a fellow non-human human

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago

    Of course you are missing parts. But you will never find the missing piece in your apartment. It’s somewhere out in the wilderness hiding behind a tree. You gave it up to get food and shelter and clean water. But now it’s all gone wrong.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Collapse:_How_Societies_Choose_to_Fail_or_Succeed

    https://www.livescience.com/20614-collapse-mythical-river-civilization.html

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Eh, who needs humanity when you can be puppy :3

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago

    Not sure what's missing but I did notice some fuzzy ears in the pic

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago

    I'm pretty sure you are from the post you have made already in my feed. I get the feeling though. 𐔌՞. .՞𐦯

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    You never know. We're not done with you yet.

    https://lemmy.world/post/51622142

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    Better off hoping for the world to change, than to be that kind of human.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    Does one of your legs split in two, like Squidward?

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    $5 says it's lifestyle

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