post from void angel @egregirls  oh you want to be puppy? be owned and taken on walkies? just someone's cute puppy girl? that's cute. say, have you ever looked at the symptoms of cPTSD?  reply by John Brown Was Right @Anarchopologist  Shush you, I don't have cPTSD, I'm just a normal AuDHD burned out gifted kid trans girl who grew up constantly worried about letting people down and feeling like my only value was in my self-reliance and.....dammit.

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[–] 33 points 2 months ago

i feel personally attacked

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  • [–] 30 points 2 months ago (9 children)

    not everything needs to be a post-traumatic thing... one can like feeling safe despite not having had terrible parents or whatever.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 months ago

    I think this also incentivizes not healing from your trauma in order to keep the identity...

    My dad isn't perfect, and he suffered horrible neglect as a kid which caused narcissistic tendencies and definitely left a mark on us kids, but I'd say I'm pretty over the "trauma" aspect of it. We have a good relationship now. However, I still want to be someone's cute puppy girl uwu (/jk)

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago (7 children)

    I think that’s the category I fall in :3

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago* (3 children)

    it's a wonderful category to be in <3

    oh, edit: hiiii vivian <3 how do you doooo? ~

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (2 children)

    Hi Maria :3

    I do good 🙃

    how you do?

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (1 child)

    heyhi <3

    i'm fiiiiiiiiiiiiine ~ not much happening. mostly sitting and thinking what to post. and eating spicy noodles and then complaining about tummy ache.

    i yearn for - conversations.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago

    mmmmm spicy noodles. I’m sorry about your tummy ache. I’ll send you my matrix if you want conversations LOL or if you wanna chat in this thread we could

    What is your favorite song you’ve listened to in the last week?

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  • [–] 28 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    This totally does not apply to me, because my only value was my conforming to the expectations of my conflict-laden surroundings which could never be fulfilled because of their contradictory nature. So I am fine. I totally did not transition way too late because I was trapped in a behavioral pattern since my childhood and neglected my own needs. I so do not have cPTSD, thank you very much.

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  • [–] 14 points 2 months ago

    I have no idea what any of that means and I feel like I'm not losing that much by not knowing

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  • [–] 12 points 2 months ago

    Overly online A(u)DHD person "Get mental health care instead of latching onto an online personality stereotype" challenge! Level: impossible.

    (All meant in good fun. Everyone has a different path to better. I seriously do recommend therapy if you can find a good therapist though. I maybe could have worked through the shit they're helping me with on my own, but I've made more progress towards who I want to be in a few months than I have in years.)

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  • [–] 10 points 2 months ago*

    why do puppygirls so often have cPTSD?

    spoiler

    because their life is rough rough rough.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago

    I'm in this picture and I don't like it.

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