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[–] 26 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 child)

She likes to be chased, but doesn't like to be caught. Or at least that's what she wants in that point in her life. Move on, maybe you'll bump into her down the road when she's ready or maybe not.

Whatever you do, don't stick around and play the games if you want something more serious. You'll just end up either getting hurt or even worse. Either you grow your feelings for her when she doesn't. This isn't fun. Or, you'll get her to be with you when she doesn't want to be tied down. This can cause her to either resent you or if she's for the streets, to cheat on you. Either way it's not a fun time for anyone.

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  • [–] 8 points 3 months ago

    I've learned this lesson the hard way a couple times. My problem is the only women who like me either have a bf, have a "daddy", or are the above example and like being chased, often 2 or 3 of those points. It gets very frustrating idk what is about me that attracts that type of lady.

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  • [–] 33 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    It's like trying to gently explain to your dealer that you don't want to hear his mixtape.

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  • [–] 21 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    I'm all for any person practising whatever relationship style they want. What im against is using people to fulfill your needs/wants. Have fun, meet people, enjoy experiences, but please dont make people your experiments. You may enjoy "the chase", but the long term effects on those individuals may have further impacts.

    I won't fully agree with all the other comments that OP is not a nice person for doing this. We all have our motivations, methods, and reasoning. That being said, considering the fact that other humans have feelings and desires helps to mitigate that main character syndrome.

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  • [–] 4 points 3 months ago

    I think it boils down to communication. If both parties understand the expectations in the relationship, then it is fine, and thats what this meme implies as well. However one party leading the other on, maybe playing the bf/gf role without wanting the commitment while the other wants full commitment is disingenuous imo.

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  • [–] 41 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    I've met several women like this. They're selfish, manipulative, hypocritical, and they LIE. Being involved with them to any extent is exhausting.

    Never got one pregnant. A friend of mine married a ho like this after she baby trapped him. He wanted her to get a job so she called the police and said he hit her and touched their kid. He's in prison now.

    Don't put your dick in crazy.

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  • [–] 7 points 3 months ago

    "I like the idea of it, not the truth. the weakness. we have no future."

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  • [–] 10 points 3 months ago

    Ew. Relationships are two-way.

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  • [–] 5 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    It's called a slave worshiping a mistress I think.

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  • [–] 7 points 3 months ago

    Make that a Kenyan girl and you have my ex.

    Miss me with that bullshit. Christ that relationship damaged me.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago

    Quality shit post with dingleberries based on the reactions in the comments 🍿

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  • [–] 18 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    nah they got a point, thats the typa post id expect to see on 4chan right before they invent a new slur that no one will ever use

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  • [–] 6 points 3 months ago (3 children)

    Change your perspective and imagine the meme was made by a (male) incel and you'll get what they were getting at.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago* (1 child)

    Guy that's mad because he's been flirting with a woman and wants to get with her but she explains to him that she doesn't wanna be with him but just wants him to want her.

    It's not how I read it initially, but hear me out...

    Wants to get in a relationship but can't? Check. Blames the woman for it? Check

    Incel's perspective checks out, imo.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago

    I agree, mostly, as that's how I read it as well. But I also think that it's easier to misunderstand that you're making it out to be. Because there's context from your previous posts which isn't explained in this meme. There's just the mention of fling in the title but the actual meme only says "I wanna be single but I want you to be obsessed with me". And a person in a non monogamous relationship wouldn't refer to themselves as "single", for example, which leads to more confusion, I think

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    It probably wasn't intended to be, but a lot of the comments are from incels. Like that super real story about the guy's friend who went to jail supposedly with no evidence against him.

    What is it about meme communities that always attract misogyny?

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  • [–] -1 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    Makes sense to me, the tone is obviously pretty flippant and silly, but of course it's going to be met with a lot of projection and "this woman ruined my life!!!!!"

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    [–] 1 point 3 months ago

    This comment section is rough to read. The hell is wrong with everyone? Women arent your property. If we don't want a committed relationship thats our choice. The MEME is even espousing being upfront, honest and communicative about it.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago

    When you're single.... Be single. Date multiple people until there is mutual interest in something more.

    Think about what you want out of life. Non relationship wise. Where do you want to live? Who do you want to be? What kind of things do you want to do regularly? What do you want to achieve? What does it take for you to be like happy? Be intentional. Think about what it might take for someone to complement that. What kind of temperament? What kind of activities should this person enjoy?

    Life should be whatever way you see it and you need to find someone who gets that.

    When you date a bunch of people, you get a sense of what it actually takes for you to be happy hanging out with someone all the time. What kind of partners take your energy away? What kind of partners give you energy?

    I will say, dating IS a skill. You can learn how to do it better. Everyone is working with something different and so obviously it will be harder for some people. That's life, but you can always learn different ways to be more effective at dating. And by trying to date a bunch, you can iron out the kinks in your strategy. The fact is it is a game, and you gotta play to learn how to play better.

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