Depends on the community. Medicine and not dying from a cut and no religiouse fundamentalism is quite nice
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There's plenty of grey between those. Also, presumably less oppressing, rape, and inbreeding (more to some old order groups)
They also treat their animals like absolute shit, like they should be taken away bad.
Came here to say this. Horrible animal abuse. What they do their work horses is inhumane.
Up and down the East Coast of the US, they're known for hiding some of the absolute worst puppy mills. It used to be a big thing every time one of them got raided but you knew they were probably just going to set up shop elsewhere. If you saw an ad for golden retriever puppies way out in the countryside of Pennsylvania, you just knew they weren't going to be treated well at all and probably have horrible health problems.
I'm glad you brought up the rape! I'm talking dolphin-levels of rape! And if you talk to the cops about it, you're out of the community!
It kinda depends on the individual communities. My dad's side of the family is from nw ohio where there are quite a few Amish communities. Where each community seems to function almost like little independent nations with their own rules, cultures, and hierarchical structures.
The small community that is closest to my family's farm is really nice. Our family has a long history with them often trading skills, resources, and labour. Whenever they need someone to operate a piece of modern equipment or to provide modern tools to a job site they would call my family. We would call them whenever we needed extra hands to build a new barn, or to re shingle a roof.
In my experience the larger and more strict the community was the more fucked up they were. The community next to us wasn't very strict, lots of loop holes to make life easier. Most of them banned anything modern in the household, but would have a barn with electricity for refrigerators and other modern amenities.
The real strict communities were always filled with miserable people, it always felt kinda what I imagine visiting a 19th century cult would be like. The elders run everything with an iron fist, and children and women were basically treated worse than working animals. Forced to work at weird little businesses to sell furniture, blankets, and baked goods to tourist.
Most Amish and meonnoites (less so) look and speak like they are miserable. Like physically they'll be broken down, have bad acme and skin blemishes, and look like they are 40 at 20.
The life is highly overrated and the Amish are abusive. Mennonites seem to mostly have struck a better balance but it's a spectrum.
They most definitely did not get it right.
Having said that, there is some value to being thoughtful about the adoption of new technology. Especially when it comes to kids, some parents are too quick to allow their kids to use smartphones, tablets, chatGPT, etc. without much supervision.
But, the prospect of having to forego virtually all modern technology or become exiled from the only family and community you've ever known is crazy. It's really only cults that require that you shun people who have left the "faith".
Also, the modern Amish are the effect of multiple decades worth of Group Polarization. People in the community will hold different views. If someone has a view that the rules are too strict and that the group should be more lenient, they may eventually give up and just join the modern world. On the other hand, if someone thinks the group isn't extreme enough, there is no other even more extreme group for them to join. So, they'll stay and fight for their view. Over time, that means that the less extreme people tend to drift away, and the more extreme ones stay, leading to the group becoming more extreme.
But, the prospect of having to forego virtually all modern technology or become exiled from the only family and community you’ve ever known is crazy.
Sounds like being forced to use meta products to keep in touch with family who don't want to learn how to use anything else.
They don't know how to use the phone? They don't know how to use regular postal mail?
I feel like people are unaware there are intentional communities doing the same but without the religious basis.
I mean they're definitely a cult who brainwash the shit out of women/children, so.....I guess that's cool?
My silent generation grandma was like this she ran a farm with chickens, turkeys, cows, a giant vegetable garden, a couple fishing ponds and drilled into my head that self sufficiency was super important. My parents Suburban life contradicted that message of course. I think about that a lot now
Fuck the Amish
New Luddites? Also since when did the Amish become a hate group? I’m not saying they’re not, but it feels like the past 3 days there’s been a lot about it.
I don’t think they’re a hate group other than typical cult behavior where others are labeled a danger to the group, serious problems are hidden from outside view, and people can be prevented from leaving and psychologically conditioned to not leave. They sort of hate all outsiders equally.
They're also super inbred and have really high rates of extra fingers and toes.
You can live from unabomber to perpetually online as you want. I'd love to live in a half hectare with a garden, trees, internet, solar panels, and 45 minute drive to a large town. Read books, WFH, etc. Its what you choose. Unfortunately, it's money holding me back. Maybe in 20 years
Yeah? Go live authentically with them for a while and report back lol
You got it wrong about Amish. They are not living off grid. They are living normally. We are living on-grid. Or trapped said otherwise.
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