As a trans gal myself who wants bottom surgery; i think people should be able to decide for themselves. it's all valid
someone wants to get top surgery? go get it man
want feminising HRT, but no name or clothing change? hell yeah gal(by)
find euphoria more useful as measure and want nothing, just your acknowledgement as an empty void with sib as pronouns? yes absolutely sib
have what you have and be an ally? valid as hell
FOMO isn't a thing for everything; decide for yourself in what ways you want and need. the only one who can decide is you
and on that regard i think to make choices easier, all of it should be possible.