cross-posted from: https://discuss.online/post/48201538

http://www.smbc-comics.com/comic/friendship-2

Alt textLater it turns out to be a gay bar, and things go better than expected.

Bonus panelBonus panel

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] 6 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

I think the problem for me is that going and doing things like that regularly requires a lot of time, which would mean I would have to sacrifice my own projects or sacrifice time with my kid, both of which I don't want to do. I don't really want to make friends with coworkers, because I tend to consider them a liability. Relationships can change, and as you get to know someone you can find out things about them that stops you from wanting to be friends (they're a secret republican, etc). If a work friendship goes south, you now have a potentially hostile coworker with intimate knowledge about your life, which can directly impact your livelihood. Sooo I have like three friends, each of whom are from my twenties or earlier, and two of whom live hundreds of miles away. I'm not unhappy, though.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 2 child comments
  • [–] 5 points 7 hours ago (1 child)

    When I was growing up, almost all of my parents friends were other parents at my activities. Bring your kid to stuff and meet the other parents. You don't have to sacrifice time with your family to also make friends.

    Tho I'm in no position to tell you how to run your life. You can do whatever you want.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 1 child comment