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[–] 5 points 3 days ago (1 child)

That sounds like a lot on your and your siblings' shoulders. Good for you, for doing what you can for her. I hope that you can maintain healthy boundaries, while doing what you deem is right to do for her.

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  • [–] [S] 7 points 3 days ago

    We try.

    No one gives her cash, which is a huge boundary for all of us. If she needs an item, we buy a quality version of it. If she needs food or something else, we pool resources for a gift card.

    Luckily for her, when I bought my condo three years ago I specifically picked a place near good public trans, and I became an e-scooter guy this year, so I don't need a car. She lives in a suburb and, unfortunately has to have a car to live, so I get through it.

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