It's hard and not fair.
I want to tell you that I have a job that I love but I don't want to suggest that everyone can manage traditional employment and I have also been on leave since June and just recently started a reduced schedule so...
So I don't know what kind of peace acceptance would grant me, knowing that I will never have the life I want and I'm just going to be flipping channels until I die.
It's not acceptance if you are not at peace with what you have.
I don't have any advice on how to get there nor am I trying to suggest that people should just suck it up and be grateful when we are denied full participation and basic needs because of our differences.
I guess I just want to express empathy. I've been totally hopeless because of the mismatch between my brain and the world, but I've managed to find a bit of acceptance too.