For fun I decided to kick the links and see what the fuss was about. I'm ignoring the billionaire one cause that obviously has nothing to do with this conversation.

why did he cancel a LGBTQ healrh budget?

I don't know, but why did he sign one of the "most significant public investments in LGBTQ+ health, wellbeing, and safety in state history" a month later? Funny you missed this.

https://lalgbtcenter.org/vanguard/press-releases/the-center-applauds-historic-california-budget-creating-the-first-statewide-lgbtq-community-center-fund/

Why did he veto a law that would have protected doctors from being dragged to Texas for daring to provide gender affirming care to ex-texans?

Maybe you didn't open and read this article, cause the article literally answers your question. I'll paste it here for you:

In his veto notice, Newsom said he worries that if he allows the legislature to take that discretionary authority away from the governor on his way out the door, others will do the same in the future in a bid to limit the next governor’s power.

As he did a rule to ensure trans folk on HRT can stock up?

He's a transphobe because he doesn't let ya'll stock up? OK. All my meds are 90 days max. Your meds are 90 day. Just cause he doesn't give you special treatment, he's a transphobe.

First of all, you could have given the actual definition of transphobia and bigot (there are dictionaries), but you chose a version that matches your arguments.

Your made up definitions allow you to call anybody that disagrees with you a transphobic bigot. And you can keep your same opinion without having to take into account other opinions.

As for Rob Sand and Newsom. I don't like Newsom. But he's probably the one I think about the most. His interview with Kirk, for instance, did not come across as unreasonable, and he was even supportive of trans people in a way that was fully ignored by everybody on here. Kirk was not, of course. The reaction from the Trans community was swift and unreasonable.

I've looked into other bills he gets bashed for, often times there's nuance that is ignored and a catchy headline that gets the reaction it wants. I don't really like defending him cause he kind of sucks.