Right so imagine some asshole takes money from your country, calls your country's founder a dictator, and then expects more money from your country.

The people that think that's a bad idea might decide to, you know, not send that asshole more money. It'd be like if a migrant American football player called George Washington a genocidal dictator and expected the his American sponsors to keep paying him. It's not something that would be accepted in the US, it's not something accepted in China.