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[–] 19 points 1 week ago* (8 children)

Personally it is me overcoming my ADHD hurdles to do a thing and then being reminded that I always forget to do things. Like I am fucking doing it right now so telling me to do the thing I am doing is like being told I forgot something, which is the most frustrating feeling for me.

Yes, it is fucking annoying when my wife hollers from the other room to do the thing I am currently doing because she assumed I wasn't. Maybe she should do the things she is supposed to do but forgets, but I don't bug her about it because I know how annoying it is.

Also, making it a gendered issue is pretty sexist of you. A boss of either gender telling me to do the thing I'm already doing is frustrating too.

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  • [+] -26 points 1 week ago* (7 children)

    That's a lot of words for how you resent your wife.

    So yeah, I guess it is relatable to people who still have their mothers and wives tell them to do household chores.

    Eh I used mothers and wives because I am a mother and wife. Nothing to do with sexism, everything to do with relating it to the types of people in my life that refuse to pitch in on shared household responsibilities.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 week ago (6 children)

    Can you throw around a few more sexist stereotypes? I don't think you have embarrssed yourself enough yet.

    It isn't just about dishes and chores, jesus christ. Go back and read my edit.

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  • [+] -15 points 1 week ago* (4 children)

    I'm talking specifically about household chores as pictured in the comic.

    I struggle with ADHD as well, but someone has to get shit done around the house regardless of my executive dysfunction. Blaming it on others is immature at best.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    I'm saying it is NOT just about household chores and it isn't about blaming anyone.

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  • [+] -8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    I mean, the comic is literally placing blame on the person requesting the chore get done instead of the person refusing to do the chore, but ok.

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