As an update I added a feature request to Pylova's Codeburg about the subscribable block lists. We'll see if they're interested.
Wonderful!
if people start taking more from Reddit and curating it personally, I think that could be a great exchange.
This sounds horrific to me! The question in my mind is not how many ghosts to allow over here, but how to generate authentic interactions between real humans. We don't need every single niche covered, we just need people to enjoy their time spent here.
90% of that is easily attainable by defederation from hexbear.net and Lemmygrad.ml. I was on multiple instances that did neither, prior to the ability for an admin to (shadow-)block certain communities, and I very nearly quit Lemmy entirely after switching here over from Kbin. In fact, I basically did as I switched over to PieFed for my main, before I began my current campaign to test the experiences on several 3rd-party apps.
A further 90% improvement can be attained by blocking Lemmy.ml (except that no major instance provides this by default, and also the Lemmy platform won't allow it at all, with the instance block being so horribly misnamed as to represent disinformation - in no way does it block users of the instance from harassing people in other communities, thus missing the entire fucking point). In this very conversation thread there was a particular onerous troll who kept following our conversation and downvoting everything I said, finally speaking up with the most inane bullshit. This was not fun for me so I banned them. New joiners, it seems obvious from the comments they leave (usually on other platforms after already leaving), don't bother to put in the work to curate their experiences and instead simply flee - to Reddit, or Bluesky, or perhaps nowhere and just touch grass from now on, combined with maybe Instagram or Tiktok or something.
I do not want to have to scroll down reading through tens to hundreds to thousands of comments, none of which represent real humans who would respond if I replied to them - that is the precise opposite of what I want. As I browse through New, often I can be the first responder anyway. And people reply to me, and so on it goes. And I don't want to be asked to do that for 12 hours a day - just one would be fine for me, if that. But GOOD content, not toxic crap like "c'mon comrades let's murder everyone in sight, eh?" - I want to see stuff that quite possibly I could even enjoy seeing, and maybe interacting with?
But even if I do see it, the endless array of trolls spoils it. I do not think that the overall lack of content is the problem here - it's the overall lack of content that is worthwhile to read, and the fact that we get constantly slapped in the face in an unconsensual manner. It's a cost (far too high) to benefit (with next to no OC, very little) trade-off that results in people fleeing here - even those that stuck with us for multiple years before finally giving up. Admiral Patrick had a horrible solution to it, but he was not wrong in the identification of the problem: people don't enjoy discourse with incels for whom no means simply to push forward all the harder.