Some days, i feel happy, and other days i feel completely lost. I miss the bubbly innocent version of myself who could enjoy little things without overthinking everything. This breakup has changed me in ways I never expected. I don't understand why I struggle to feel genuinely happy why crowded places make me anxious or why I sometimes feel like I'll never heal from this. Is it normal to feel this way after a painful breakup.

Today is 38th day of no contact

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[–] 16 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Absolutely for sure 38 days in. A friend once game me a timeline that it usually takes around half the duration of the relationship itself, give or take. That's unpleasant to hear after a 10 year relationship, but it was good advice - helped set expectations...

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  • [–] [S] 8 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    Then i guess i need to give myself a few more months. i know healing isn't the same for everyone, but thank you, it helps to have a rough idea and not rush myself.

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