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[–] 14 points 2 weeks ago (10 children)

My therapist likes to end texts with ellipsis... Apparently my partner's mom does this too, so maybe it's a boomer/old person thing...

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  • [–] 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    My kids therapist would do that too and it always made her seem Ominous.

    Like:

    β€œI’ll see you two next week …”

    Like, are you threatening us?

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  • [–] 8 points 2 weeks ago

    That's exactly what it was for me and, before I realized I should stop reading into it because she's my therapist and direct communication is the whole point, I thought I might've said something weird.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 weeks ago

    It's old-fashioned informal writing. Until about 20 years ago, the vast majority of writing was formal writing. Formal writing follows formal speech patterns, with proper sentences and commas and full stops. This is what you'd learn at school. When we talk informally, everyday, we don't actually talk like that. We talk more in fragments. An ellipsis is sort of the old person's way of separating these fragments. Younger people tend to press enter and send another message to separate the fragments. Maybe the oldies get annoyed at young people sending multiple messages when it could have been one.

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  • [–] 0 points 2 weeks ago

    While more boomers to this than do people in other generations, there are definitely younger people who do this too. Almost without exception, they're people who lack personality and who have terrible communication skills.

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