you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Gather the courage to tell them what you're telling us in a polite way. In my mind, there's no other way around it.

A good friend will confront their bullshit in a loving way.

  • source
  • hideshow 2 child comments
  • [–] [S] 2 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Okay so how do you suggest I say it?

    I don't want to focus on how ridiculous her behavior is, that is going to make her defensive and double down.

    I want to encourage her to discover and be who she is with out trying to fit inside some ridiculous imagined box that she has currently decided to shove herself into.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 1 child comment