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submitted 1 month ago by to c/trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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So there's something I've been dealing with but have no frame of reference for handling. I had a bad ex who was a low-key chaser and even physically hurt me near the end of the relationship but may have come out as trans themself idk. Other trans people love this person and I think they spread rumors about me because local queer communities have been hostile towards me.

The whole thing was frustrating especially because I'm still dealing with transphobia from other people. I feel kind of done with trans communities because of stuff like this but I'm not sure.

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[–] 4 points 1 month ago (1 child)

there is absolutely 0% chance for me to tell how i interpret the situation, as i wasn't there.

if your issue is how you're treated by other communities, maybe ask them directly why they treat you badly? i'm not really sure but maybe they're just trying to be protective of their members and think that you're bringing trouble into the club. but maybe there's also simply no reason. no way to know for sure except to ask them.

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