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submitted 1 month ago by to c/trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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So there's something I've been dealing with but have no frame of reference for handling. I had a bad ex who was a low-key chaser and even physically hurt me near the end of the relationship but may have come out as trans themself idk. Other trans people love this person and I think they spread rumors about me because local queer communities have been hostile towards me.

The whole thing was frustrating especially because I'm still dealing with transphobia from other people. I feel kind of done with trans communities because of stuff like this but I'm not sure.

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[–] 16 points 1 month ago

Unfortunately trans people are still people and occasionally they do stuff like this.

I had a situation where I was frustrated with someone I was living with and I vented to someone I thought I could trust, thinking it was a safe way to process my feelings and not upset the person I lived with.

Turned out the person I vented to told the person I vented to what I said. And that made things worse. So if I'm upset with someone now, the only person I tell is my therapist.

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