Glad it works for you, for other folks, like myself, it would be a waking nightmare to live that way. Not everyone gets along with their family. For some people, being away from family is the only way they can be healthy and happy. For many people their families are nothing but a burden on them and a drain on their well-being. Not everyone has the luck of having family that is supportive and cooperative. Some of us come from families where our parents actively tried to fuck us over and fucked themselves over and we spend our entire life trying to get out of the self-imposed misery.

Further, again I"m not talking about multi-generational households by free choice or other cultural practices. I'm talking about people who are dependents, like they can't function without their parents money or approval, and often are in toxic and abusive relationships with each other, where both parties would be better w/o the dependency.

Cool. I don't. I fucking love being independent and most independent people I know love it too. The most unhappy people I meet and have known were those who were co-dependent on their families, even if they were living alone, because they never developed emotional of fiscal dependence and a self of autonomy and self-actualization...

I don't have a lack of a sense of community at all. But I go outside of my house and do fun shit at least 2-3 times a week. I don't sit around on the internet complaining about how awful the world is and how awful my life is... weird how that works! Weird how being an independent self-actualizing adult is a really positive thing that makes life happy... and the alternative makes life miserable.

Almost as if you want to feel good about yourself you should... go outside and participate in life. Not sit around doom scrolling on a device in an online spaces in a cycle of self-pity and rage punctuated by bouts of feeling moral superior to other folks who don't share in your politics or lifestyle choices

Social mobility is not a myth dude. But keep telling yourself that if makes you feel better about your life.

It's true that many folks refuse to break the cycle of their misery. I've seen that countless times my entire life. Grew up in a shitty poor community full of people who fucked themselves over repeatedly, and well, I decided not to be like those people and my life got a lot better. And plenty of rich people out there actively choose to be miserable their entire lives. Money isn't really the issue, so much as the cycle of shitty self-destructive choices and the refusal to change your life.

No, finding a job isn't easy, but it's also much harder when you have a shitty low-effort attitude. I hire people at my company. Most people who apply shoot themselves in the foot because they don't know how to make themselves a appealing candidate.

Yeah well, that's why you better get a job where your wages increase, shouldn't you? Also why you should be saving and investing, and not blowing your money on short term bullshit like so many 'poor' people do.

Weird how many people I meet who are 35 and 'broke' who spend their entire life spending more than they made... funny how that works.