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[–] 13 points 3 months ago (3 children)

The expectation on me to be the instigator/aggressor in all interactions. In either connotation of that statement

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  • [–] 9 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    it also means all fault and responsibility is in your camp, and the other person considers themselves blameless in all things.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

    In certain places and frameworks. It's happened the other way around where I live to where dudes got to walk free after SAing a child. But either was seems to not be as much of a thing in cultures that are less focused on punitive justice

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