I thought this way for years. Turns out men actually want to be men, and I am much happier being a girl!

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[–] 9 points 1 year ago* (3 children)

Yes youre cisgender

You can, however, reject the gender binary for a spectrum and place yourself anywhere you see fit. Im generally fine with being a man and I don't have dysphoria, so I too am not trans - but I consider myself non-binary. I have feminine traits im more than happy exploring and remaining more or less who and what I am now, and im fine with he/his pronouns.

But really at the end of the day the only people's business it is are me and my wife.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    For sure!

    I'm a dude because I have always had to be something, but I don't think the distinctions are necessary, really. What's even the point?

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  • Patriarchy, mostly.

    Having genders is useful, but society needs to be more flexible with how people harmlessly describe themselves, not less. I blame the pulpit for the majority of backwards attitudes about it all, and I suspect many people here would have stories about being bullied for Christ. Especially those who've been homeless.

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