I thought this way for years. Turns out men actually want to be men, and I am much happier being a girl!

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[–] 33 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Sorry if I don't belong commenting here, but I figured I'd leave a comment in case it helps anyone recognize something about themselves as it's related to what you said.

As a man I've never had a second thought about it. I never thought about changing anything in that respect. It's not something that ever comes up in my mind, I just "am." I've never thought about "what it means to be a man" or have any concern about what I look like (other than hating being short and balding lol) when I look in the mirror my only thoughts are usually "God what an ugly fucker" lol so I suppose if you do have thoughts about yourself it's worth exploring them!

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  • [–] 26 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I remember a Real Life comic (which I can't easily find again, sorry) about Mae getting ready to have bottom surgery and having doubts. Her wife pointed out "you know, most guys wouldn't be excited about having their dick chopped off" and Dave, overhearing from the next room, yelled something to the effect of "can confirm!"

    As a cis guy, yep, that just about sums it up!

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