Saying that it is just incompetence blames individuals for not being capable enough. The problem is that the incentives for the Democrats to do anything useful don't exist. Their budget comes from giant corporate donors who will never let them pass universal healthcare, support unions or public transportation. It's not incompetence. It's structural. They are well aware that progressive policy positions are popular and they continue to intentionally leave them off the agenda.
It's not incompetence.