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[–] 7 points 7 months ago (3 children)

2016 I was in middle school, being a disappointment to my parents

2026 I'm a young adult that withdrew from college, depressed af, still being a disappointment to my parents

(Also holy shit OP how are you already ready to be a parent? I barely figured out my life yet... 😭)

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago* (1 child)

    Cuddle them.

    I loved it so much when I cuddled with my mom, like she'd encourage it and she'd sometime initiate it.

    My dad never did that... I guess that's just a mom-only thing?

    I'm male so idk if in the future as a dad, if I can do the cuddling as good as a mom could lol.

    Omg those memories make me UwU so much...

    I remember my mom just letting me sleep in their bed... like... okay maybe western culture is more adverse to it, but I felt warm... I felt safe...

    But now adulthood is here and I'm so sad lol...

    the NOSTALGIA...

    Also pls don't yell at them... my mom also yelled at me and then I feel so sad... cause me depression..

    Money isn’t an issue

    Oh yea this is why idk if I even wanna start a family...

    Maybe if I secured my share of the inheritance... then I'd be stress free in starting a family...

    But if I get disinherited... yeah then maybe it'll never happen... :(

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago

    I'm so happy for you for knowing what you want and going for it. I wouldn't recommend becoming a parent that young in general, but if you're ready for it, the youthfulness will allow you to do so much more as far as keeping up with the energy of a little kid goes.

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