OH! It was obvious to me that the meme image was an example of what I was talking about. A Type A personality talking to a Type B personality. They think they are having a debate. They are both facing a wall blindfolded and earplugs.
But I guess that answers my question. It's not my autism, its how zoomed out I am in perspective (or that's the definition of my autism I suppose). I guess the way I look at the world is very unnatural to people, even neurodivergent people. Fascinating... Well, even if you still didn't get me, you helped me out, so thanks!
This whole idea relates to an abstract concept called Ontology. But that's discussed in the very thread already posted at the OP.