▲ 394 ▼ Taxed indeed (piefed.cdn.blahaj.zone) submitted 1 year ago by LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/adhd@lemmy.dbzer0.com 73 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[+] PapstJL4U@lemmy.world -18 points 1 year ago* (16 children) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source hideshow 16 child comments replies: [–] koper@feddit.nl 18 points 1 year ago Don't make me tap the sign permalink fedilink source parent [–] stray@pawb.social 3 points 1 year ago That's ableist. permalink fedilink source parent [–] auraithx@piefed.social 7 points 1 year ago (13 children) If you don’t have ADHD you shouldn’t be commenting here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] stray@pawb.social 4 points 1 year ago It's fine if people come in to learn about it though, right? I think a lot of people like myself can't get diagnosed for various reasons, or maybe they just have a loved one who has ADHD. I think it's better to say that if you're going to be ableist about it, you can keep your mouth shut. permalink fedilink source parent [+] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -8 points 1 year ago (11 children) Why are you assuming they don't have ADHD? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 11 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 22 points 1 year ago (10 children) Because they are attributing some of the clearest examples of how the condition impacts people to a ‘growing up tax’. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [+] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -8 points 1 year ago (9 children) A misguided view doesn't mean they don't have ADHD permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 9 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 6 points 1 year ago* (8 children) Doesn’t mean they do either. This post appears on the all feed. Why would you assume they do with that view? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -5 points 1 year ago (7 children) Because everyone experiences things differently, your experiences aren't representative of the group as a whole. Neither are his, or mine. Making assumptions like that does nothing positive for anyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 7 points 1 year ago (6 children) What a load of shite. Nothing to suggest they have ADHD or that it should be assumed by default. I said ‘If’, not ‘You don’t’ What an inane comment to raise, really. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] CrazyHorse@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) You're gatekeeping so hard it's hard to believe you're diagnosed with ADHD. Community pooper. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 1 point 1 year ago Not gatekeeping at all, they didnt try and enter the gate. You however, are lucky your patter is atrocious. permalink fedilink source parent [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (3 children) I don't think it's very kind to diagnose someone from a single sentence permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 5 points 1 year ago (2 children) And if they had said they had ADHD and I had denied it you maybe would’ve had a point. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Why do you think the inverse is less problematic? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 4 points 1 year ago Why don’t you? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] auraithx@piefed.social 7 points 1 year ago (13 children) If you don’t have ADHD you shouldn’t be commenting here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] stray@pawb.social 4 points 1 year ago It's fine if people come in to learn about it though, right? I think a lot of people like myself can't get diagnosed for various reasons, or maybe they just have a loved one who has ADHD. I think it's better to say that if you're going to be ableist about it, you can keep your mouth shut. permalink fedilink source parent [+] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -8 points 1 year ago (11 children) Why are you assuming they don't have ADHD? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 11 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 22 points 1 year ago (10 children) Because they are attributing some of the clearest examples of how the condition impacts people to a ‘growing up tax’. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [+] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -8 points 1 year ago (9 children) A misguided view doesn't mean they don't have ADHD permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 9 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 6 points 1 year ago* (8 children) Doesn’t mean they do either. This post appears on the all feed. Why would you assume they do with that view? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -5 points 1 year ago (7 children) Because everyone experiences things differently, your experiences aren't representative of the group as a whole. Neither are his, or mine. Making assumptions like that does nothing positive for anyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 7 points 1 year ago (6 children) What a load of shite. Nothing to suggest they have ADHD or that it should be assumed by default. I said ‘If’, not ‘You don’t’ What an inane comment to raise, really. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] CrazyHorse@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) You're gatekeeping so hard it's hard to believe you're diagnosed with ADHD. Community pooper. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 1 point 1 year ago Not gatekeeping at all, they didnt try and enter the gate. You however, are lucky your patter is atrocious. permalink fedilink source parent [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (3 children) I don't think it's very kind to diagnose someone from a single sentence permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 5 points 1 year ago (2 children) And if they had said they had ADHD and I had denied it you maybe would’ve had a point. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Why do you think the inverse is less problematic? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 4 points 1 year ago Why don’t you? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] stray@pawb.social 4 points 1 year ago It's fine if people come in to learn about it though, right? I think a lot of people like myself can't get diagnosed for various reasons, or maybe they just have a loved one who has ADHD. I think it's better to say that if you're going to be ableist about it, you can keep your mouth shut. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -8 points 1 year ago (11 children) Why are you assuming they don't have ADHD? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 11 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 22 points 1 year ago (10 children) Because they are attributing some of the clearest examples of how the condition impacts people to a ‘growing up tax’. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [+] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -8 points 1 year ago (9 children) A misguided view doesn't mean they don't have ADHD permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 9 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 6 points 1 year ago* (8 children) Doesn’t mean they do either. This post appears on the all feed. Why would you assume they do with that view? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -5 points 1 year ago (7 children) Because everyone experiences things differently, your experiences aren't representative of the group as a whole. Neither are his, or mine. Making assumptions like that does nothing positive for anyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 7 points 1 year ago (6 children) What a load of shite. Nothing to suggest they have ADHD or that it should be assumed by default. I said ‘If’, not ‘You don’t’ What an inane comment to raise, really. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] CrazyHorse@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) You're gatekeeping so hard it's hard to believe you're diagnosed with ADHD. Community pooper. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 1 point 1 year ago Not gatekeeping at all, they didnt try and enter the gate. You however, are lucky your patter is atrocious. permalink fedilink source parent [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (3 children) I don't think it's very kind to diagnose someone from a single sentence permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 5 points 1 year ago (2 children) And if they had said they had ADHD and I had denied it you maybe would’ve had a point. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Why do you think the inverse is less problematic? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 4 points 1 year ago Why don’t you? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] auraithx@piefed.social 22 points 1 year ago (10 children) Because they are attributing some of the clearest examples of how the condition impacts people to a ‘growing up tax’. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [+] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -8 points 1 year ago (9 children) A misguided view doesn't mean they don't have ADHD permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 9 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 6 points 1 year ago* (8 children) Doesn’t mean they do either. This post appears on the all feed. Why would you assume they do with that view? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -5 points 1 year ago (7 children) Because everyone experiences things differently, your experiences aren't representative of the group as a whole. Neither are his, or mine. Making assumptions like that does nothing positive for anyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 7 points 1 year ago (6 children) What a load of shite. Nothing to suggest they have ADHD or that it should be assumed by default. I said ‘If’, not ‘You don’t’ What an inane comment to raise, really. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] CrazyHorse@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) You're gatekeeping so hard it's hard to believe you're diagnosed with ADHD. Community pooper. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 1 point 1 year ago Not gatekeeping at all, they didnt try and enter the gate. You however, are lucky your patter is atrocious. permalink fedilink source parent [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (3 children) I don't think it's very kind to diagnose someone from a single sentence permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 5 points 1 year ago (2 children) And if they had said they had ADHD and I had denied it you maybe would’ve had a point. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Why do you think the inverse is less problematic? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 4 points 1 year ago Why don’t you? permalink fedilink source parent
[+] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -8 points 1 year ago (9 children) A misguided view doesn't mean they don't have ADHD permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 9 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 6 points 1 year ago* (8 children) Doesn’t mean they do either. This post appears on the all feed. Why would you assume they do with that view? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -5 points 1 year ago (7 children) Because everyone experiences things differently, your experiences aren't representative of the group as a whole. Neither are his, or mine. Making assumptions like that does nothing positive for anyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 7 points 1 year ago (6 children) What a load of shite. Nothing to suggest they have ADHD or that it should be assumed by default. I said ‘If’, not ‘You don’t’ What an inane comment to raise, really. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] CrazyHorse@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) You're gatekeeping so hard it's hard to believe you're diagnosed with ADHD. Community pooper. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 1 point 1 year ago Not gatekeeping at all, they didnt try and enter the gate. You however, are lucky your patter is atrocious. permalink fedilink source parent [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (3 children) I don't think it's very kind to diagnose someone from a single sentence permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 5 points 1 year ago (2 children) And if they had said they had ADHD and I had denied it you maybe would’ve had a point. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Why do you think the inverse is less problematic? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 4 points 1 year ago Why don’t you? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] auraithx@piefed.social 6 points 1 year ago* (8 children) Doesn’t mean they do either. This post appears on the all feed. Why would you assume they do with that view? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -5 points 1 year ago (7 children) Because everyone experiences things differently, your experiences aren't representative of the group as a whole. Neither are his, or mine. Making assumptions like that does nothing positive for anyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 7 points 1 year ago (6 children) What a load of shite. Nothing to suggest they have ADHD or that it should be assumed by default. I said ‘If’, not ‘You don’t’ What an inane comment to raise, really. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] CrazyHorse@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) You're gatekeeping so hard it's hard to believe you're diagnosed with ADHD. Community pooper. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 1 point 1 year ago Not gatekeeping at all, they didnt try and enter the gate. You however, are lucky your patter is atrocious. permalink fedilink source parent [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (3 children) I don't think it's very kind to diagnose someone from a single sentence permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 5 points 1 year ago (2 children) And if they had said they had ADHD and I had denied it you maybe would’ve had a point. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Why do you think the inverse is less problematic? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 4 points 1 year ago Why don’t you? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -5 points 1 year ago (7 children) Because everyone experiences things differently, your experiences aren't representative of the group as a whole. Neither are his, or mine. Making assumptions like that does nothing positive for anyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 7 points 1 year ago (6 children) What a load of shite. Nothing to suggest they have ADHD or that it should be assumed by default. I said ‘If’, not ‘You don’t’ What an inane comment to raise, really. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] CrazyHorse@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) You're gatekeeping so hard it's hard to believe you're diagnosed with ADHD. Community pooper. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 1 point 1 year ago Not gatekeeping at all, they didnt try and enter the gate. You however, are lucky your patter is atrocious. permalink fedilink source parent [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (3 children) I don't think it's very kind to diagnose someone from a single sentence permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 5 points 1 year ago (2 children) And if they had said they had ADHD and I had denied it you maybe would’ve had a point. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Why do you think the inverse is less problematic? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 4 points 1 year ago Why don’t you? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] auraithx@piefed.social 7 points 1 year ago (6 children) What a load of shite. Nothing to suggest they have ADHD or that it should be assumed by default. I said ‘If’, not ‘You don’t’ What an inane comment to raise, really. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] CrazyHorse@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) You're gatekeeping so hard it's hard to believe you're diagnosed with ADHD. Community pooper. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 1 point 1 year ago Not gatekeeping at all, they didnt try and enter the gate. You however, are lucky your patter is atrocious. permalink fedilink source parent [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (3 children) I don't think it's very kind to diagnose someone from a single sentence permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 5 points 1 year ago (2 children) And if they had said they had ADHD and I had denied it you maybe would’ve had a point. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Why do you think the inverse is less problematic? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 4 points 1 year ago Why don’t you? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CrazyHorse@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) You're gatekeeping so hard it's hard to believe you're diagnosed with ADHD. Community pooper. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 1 point 1 year ago Not gatekeeping at all, they didnt try and enter the gate. You however, are lucky your patter is atrocious. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] auraithx@piefed.social 1 point 1 year ago Not gatekeeping at all, they didnt try and enter the gate. You however, are lucky your patter is atrocious. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (3 children) I don't think it's very kind to diagnose someone from a single sentence permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 5 points 1 year ago (2 children) And if they had said they had ADHD and I had denied it you maybe would’ve had a point. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Why do you think the inverse is less problematic? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 4 points 1 year ago Why don’t you? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] auraithx@piefed.social 5 points 1 year ago (2 children) And if they had said they had ADHD and I had denied it you maybe would’ve had a point. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Why do you think the inverse is less problematic? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 4 points 1 year ago Why don’t you? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] dropped_packet@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Why do you think the inverse is less problematic? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] auraithx@piefed.social 4 points 1 year ago Why don’t you? permalink fedilink source parent