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[–] 6 points 11 months ago (2 children)

You have to invite people to specific things, not just a vague idea.

I just finished hanging out with a friend-couple. We did yardwork and drank tea. lol

Create a plan and then invite people to it:
"I'm going to this concert next month, come along?"
"I'm going for dinner later, join?"
"I'm bringing down the patriarchy from within and i would love for you to be there."
"I'm doing x because y. You should come with."

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  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    It's tiring tho if you are the only plannin dude. :< Have two friends of "We should hang out sometime!" variety and being the one who always has to grab them and nail down a plan is draining xD And it's not like they don't want to hang out and throw out empty words - they are just absolutely incapable of doing the planing. xD

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