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Finding people who vibe with you is so hard (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 11 months ago by to c/showerthoughts@lemmy.world
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So I moved back to my city after 7 years where my family lives.

It's been 2 years but I never really enjoyed people here. Mostly people I met were from my previous circles, family, school friends and their partners.

I always thought something was off and maybe over time I will figure things out but it was just not happening.

Yesterday I went to dinner with my partners friends and damn it was whole different vibe. As if it's a different culture. I really enjoyed talking and was genuinely interested in next meeting.

Resparked my joy in meeting people and I guess I was with wrong people and there are people who are out there who vibe match with me but it's so hard to find them.

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[–] 2 points 11 months ago (1 child)

It can be like that for sure. I accidentally called a trans skater 'she' three years ago, and they got over it and understood it was a mistake, but one of the refs in the league still won't talk to me. So petty and stupid how people can be.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

    honestly, i have had the SAME experience. the trans people are way more chill than the non-trans people who think they are 'fighting' on behalf of trans people. they are drunk on self-righteousness. i got more shit about BLM from white women who had zero black friends, than i ever did from a black person. multiple times I got screamed at for not attending a BLM protest... by a woman who didn't herself attend and would say 'i woudln't feel safe attending a blm protest as a white woman'. totally ignorant of her own racism inherent in that statement.

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