In principle, i agree with you.
You already feel tbe "but...." coming in.
But these people relish in hatred. If (more to the point, when) roles are reversed, this is what they do and they enjoy doing it. They laugh about the suffering of others, they make fun of the suffering of others.
I don't know this woman at all, I don't know her name, I don't know her views, thoughts, politics, or even what suffering she's going through
However, she is not only a Christian Republican tradwife, she is the Christian Republican tradwife of one of the lowest, most hateful figures out there. I think it's very fair to assume she is a horrible hateful person because of course she is: she is a Christian Republican. And the wife of one of the more hateful speakers out there.
I feel no pity for this woman, I do not believe anyone should have mercy for her, she wouldn't have it for us.