Height, as long as not much shorter than me, it doesn’t matter.
And I'm saying for other women, they don't even care if they're taller, especially if it's just when they're in heels. Even more so when you get to ridiculously attractive women who have already been able to be very selective on just physical traits.
Same way a man that can walk into any room and get the attention of the most beautiful woman, eventually has the novelty of physical beauty wear off compared to someone who's never experienced a partner like that
It's a human thing, there's not really a gender difference. When you can always "get" the most physically attractive person, you start valuing other charecteristics more when looking for a longterm partner.
It starts out looking for a physically attractive person who also has those other qualities, but as you value those more, you relax the other standards without even knowing you're doing it.