tall guys seem to favor short women, and short guys usually seem to want women shorter than them,

That's a misunderstanding that everyone keeps assuming. But because it's so prevalent, people keep making the assumption about others.

If you're into a short guy, don't just assume he's not into you just because you're taller. He might be into you but assume you're not into him for the same reason.

Be into whoever you're into, just don't press it if they're not interested.

That kind of circles back to what I said about especially attractive people caring less about looks. They have the confidence to not give a fuck and just shoot their shot without ruling themselves out first.

Most people's problem is just their own fear of rejection, doesn't matter what gender.