So, my good friend (18m) had a falling out with his ex (19m) because the ex bullied him and also because he is apparently dating a 16f, so my friend thinks he is a pedophile for obvious reasons (adult + minor).

I can see why this would be considered bad but also, when I turn 16, my girlfriend will be 19 too, as I am currently a young sophomore who is about 3 years younger than her girlfriend, a senior.

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[–] 18 points 1 year ago (9 children)

The difference in age between 22 and 25 is a lot less than between 19 and 16.

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    The same numerically. You’re not that obtuse, so is this a joke or are you a cringey debatelord?

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    Doubling down on feigned obtuseness, I see.

    You can take the girl out of Reddit, but can’t take the Reddit out of the girl.

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    A 10 year age gap is the same numerically at age 40-50 as it is at age 10-20 but they are clearly vastly different. There's an implicit power imbalance.

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    I gave a more extreme example to demonstrate that your "they are the same numerically" idea is flawed

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    Your critical thinking skills are somewhat lacking, I'm sorry to say

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