By the typical and stupid societal definition of the word manly, he does fit. Not only the visual depiction of it, but also the fact that he goes out and builds his own furniture and a variety of other hobbies. Also, I want him inside of me.

The problem is that this societal definition of the word manly is stupid, because it's limiting to every single person involved and sexist garbage.

The problem is the Western and now global conception of masculinity is broken (for many reasons) with social media acting as an accelerant.

At some point Stoicism got bastardized into being emotionless and that got imbued into Western masculinity also.

We're going to have to go back to actively teaching boys how to be men if we want to course correct (rather than having Rogan or Peterson teach them).