We didn’t think about the absence of things we’re didn’t have. It’s easy to look back and say “I could have gotten away with so much” but we didn’t think about it.

Your whole life being recorded was a thing for my generation (X)… if you were rich. Rich families had video cameras and they did record all kinds of things. Birthday parties, holidays, vacations, and so on. We saw cameras. We either tried to avoid them, or tried to flip them off — so the cameras avoided us. They didn’t wanna see the poors anyway. And for the most part, they were, and mostly did their filming, in places you couldn’t go if you/your parents worked for a living.

In my experience people didn't trust each other more, but it did feel like you had more autonomy. Cell phones are what really changed everything, for better and worse. I think the dumb phone era was the best because you were no longer in a position to need to walk miles in the countryside due to a breakdown, but also they weren't ubiquitous enough that everyone demanded constant contact (old rules of phone etiquette were still in force). Also no algorithms. Brain rot was confined to TV, magazines, and radio.

I still remember paranoia about phone lines being tapped, though - in the era of the Cold War there was a sense of government spying abilities and it's not like camera surveillance wasn't around, even if less common than it is now.

Before security cameras were everywhere, things felt 'normal'. There have been security cameras in store for a looong time before everyone had them -- so common even the culture touchstone movie Terminator (1984) showed their use and they were common well before that.

Unlike most folks, it took me over a decade to come to grips with the loss of anonymity. Once the internet existed, I never entered my actual name into anything online, wouldn't join facebook, and wouldn't let anyone take my picture lest they attach my name to it. Eventually, I realized that even if I didn't put my name online, everyone with my phone number put me in THEIR address books and anonymity was simply a lost cause.

At the same time, I've noticed that news/tv no longer show faces in their generic street-scene footage about anything that might be damaging (like 'How fat is our town?') and instead just show people waist-down, blurred, or very distant. That also happens a lot for less embarrassing content, and there's generally less footage of generic local people.

That said, I'm really glad everyone has a cell phone with camera to catch bad police behavior. Lots of people used to dismiss such reports as people with a grudge making stuff up, but now there's too much evidence to hide it.