[–] 1 point 1 week ago

My 8 year old son used to do this when he was little. We’d be hanging out on the train or something and he’d suddenly turn to be and be like “what’s 4096 times 2?”

For me though, I had (still have) a thing about rhythms in spoken language. The last thing that was said to me would echo in my head, repeating, until it revealed its rhythm, and then the rhythm would get stuck in my head, like a song, and play over and over, the words themselves drifting out disappearing…

It’s weird, but I like it.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    I can drive, but I’m like a sponge for everyone’s road rage — I don’t often get angry myself but all that negative energy just drains the shit out of me, I have an autistic meltdown almost every time I drive.

    I stopped driving regularly about 20 years ago (10 years before I was diagnosed with autism) and I saw a huge reduction in my day to day stress.

    About 15 years ago, I moved to a city where I can walk or bike everywhere, and driving just isn’t an issue. Highly recommended.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    I’ve always been really good at making friends with extremely interesting people, but terrible with normal people.

    My best friends, over the years:

    • a guy who travels the country working as a chef for anywhere from 3 months to a year
    • a professional ontologist (literally it’s in his title, he works at Amazon and makes $200k)
    • a guy who got laid off by an airline after 9/11 and used his flight benefits to build a solo business importing crap from Turkey
    • an unmarried gay couple who are both schizophrenic (neither one can work so they’re poor as shit), one is a guitarist and the other is a bassist and they’re amazing
    • a mathematician who grew up in poverty and now works in biotech and talks more to his plants than any humans
    • a philosophy professor who somehow manages to make the dullest philosophical ideas sound like the shadows between the petals of a flower
    • a guy who takes old furniture from an abandoned IBM office park and sells it to Japanese people online (it’s all Herman Miller shit) and makes music from outer space
    • a former protege of a famous experimental filmmaker who opened a mirage clothing store in a tiny town in the middle of nowhere
    • a high school art teacher who is objectively the most inspired and inspiring person I’ve ever met in my life (also he knows kung fu)
    • a seemingly endless stream of freaks, weirdos, and rejects from the rooms of AA (i thought i was an alcoholic/drug addict for a long time, turns out I was just autistic) — former junkies, prostitutes, homeless derelicts, and (former!) absolute monsters…

    I’ve had extremely good luck, they’re very cool.

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  • [–] 12 points 2 months ago

    I remember years ago I saw a joke online that said something like, if there’s a difference between right and left socks, you’re autistic. I was like, that’s stupid, obviously there’s a right and left sock, and I’m not autistic. A few years later, BAM, autism diagnosis.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago

    Neurodiversity is so weird. I have very string texture requirements, but they're apparently the opposite of yours. The feeling of corduroy grooves in harmony with my fingerprint grooves is recently satisfying to me. And velvet -- omg heaven is literally made of velvet.

    My issues are with inconstancy -- a space of smooth fabric is ruined if there's a tiny bit of grit somewhere. Crumbs in the bed? I'll sleep on the couch. (Interestingly, both velvet and corduroy can obscure such inconsistencies, maybe that's why I like them?)

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    This so much. My mother used to tell me the story of the princess and the pita even I was little, and I think it was probably a moralistic story, but I have no idea — but I related to that girl so much.

    Same goes for bare feet. I don't mind being outside barefoot, that's where dirt is supposed to be... But indoors? No thanks.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago (1 child)

    First of all, wearing tube socks inside out was revelatory for me. No seam problems, no texture problems, etc. AFAIK Hanes still makes mostly-cotton socks. Buy them in person, not online. Inside out socks is a general practice for me, not just around the house.

    Secondly, I have opted for a pair of extremely comfortable indoor-only shoes. I got a pair of no-laces sketchers that go in and off with no hands. I got mine as a gift but if they’re expensive, the next best option is $10 “kung fu” slippers (like everyone wears in old Bruce Lee movies) — get rubber-soled ones if you have a lot of carpeting; cotton soles are better (more comfy, more breathable), but you’ll slip around on the carpet. And get them at least one size bigger, maybe 2.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    The dynamic width thing is huge… so many notifications spend their precious initial width on boilerplate bs, I’ll give it a shot…

    tho tbh all I really need is a full screen, undismissable thing for when my battery is dying.. other notifications are very lovely but the number of times I’ve only realized I was low on battery when my computer starts shutting down is… a lot.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Dear Quexotic,

    I’m writing you today to let you know that I, also, relate to the original poster. I appreciate that we have this in common.

    Additionally, I wanted to express that, the thing that you have done here, I see it. While some might disagree, I found it pleasantly subtle, and, due to its nature, subtlety often doesn’t get the recognition it deserves.

    In this case, I felt this mode of expression would both build upon the humorous twist embedded in your message, but also afford the opportunity to pronounce my admiration for that cleverness, even though it may be a minor moment in both of our lives.

    With my warmest regards,

    Jeremy “JP” Parker

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago

    I got diagnosed with adhd in 2009, and tried meds for a while (vyvanse ftl), but I couldn’t sleep, so I stopped. Then I got distracted and forgot I had it. Got re-diagnosed, along with autism, in like 2022 or something. I’m on adderall now and it’s fine I guess.

    I was 40 years old when the puzzle pieces of my life finally started to come together.

    (I know a lot of autistic people don’t love the old puzzle piece logo, but for me, it’s the most apt metaphor I’ve ever seen.)

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    In CSS, let's talk about srcset or image-set. In that context, you can define which image the browser loads using 1x, 2x, 3x, etc. These refer to pixel density. (In the case of srcset, you can use pixel dimensions too, which sidesteps the issue I'm going to talk about, but it still occurs in image-set, and also is still weird to me in srcset, even if you can side step it.)

    So, assuming, say, a 20" monitor with 1080p resolution is 1x, then a 10" screen with 1080p would be, technically, 2x - though, in the real world, it's more like a 6" screen has a 1000x2500 resolution - so, I don't care about math, that's somewhere between 2x and 3x.

    Let's imagine a set of images presented like this:

    srcset(image_1000x666.webp 1x,
    image_1500x1000.webp 2x,
    image_3000x2000.webp 3x)
    

    then an iphone 14 max (a 6"-ish screen with a 1000x2500-ish resolution, for a 2-3x pixel density), would load the 3000x2000 image, but my 27", 1440p monitor would load the 1000x666px image.

    It seems intuitively backwards - but I've confirmed it - according to MDN, 1x = smaller image, 3x = larger image.

    But as I understand it, an iphone 14 acts as if its a 300x800 screen - using the concept of "points" instead of pixels - which, in the context of "1x" image size makes a lot of sense - but the browser isn't reading that, all it seems to care about is how many pixels are in an inch.

    I made a little page to demonstrate the issue, tho I acknowledge it's not hugely helpful, since, other than using your actual eyeballs, it's hard to tell which image is loaded in the scrset example, but take a look if you want.

    https://germyparker.github.io/image-srcset-example/

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