Context: In Islam people must be identified by their paternal lineage, meaning one's patronym/last name/however their culture identifies paternal ancestry must tie to their father. This is because the Quran says "call them by the names of their fathers" (Quran 33:5), and while the verse was talking about adoption the principle is unanimously interpreted to apply in general.

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[–] 22 points 5 months ago* (6 children)

I think when people get married they should make up their own last name. Kind of like saying your future is yours to make.

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  • [–] 8 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    We managed to get 12 generations into our family tree. I can confirm there are more name changes and weird things happening than you think. We definitely kinda used to do this...

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago (2 children)

    My family's last name was changed in the Third Reich because it was a German family with a Slavic name (which isn't even true but who cares) in the eastern part of the Reich (what is now well inside Poland). I'm not saying that's a good reason to change the name but it shows that it's possible.

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    I want this meme but with an extra fifth animated panel with a women physically removing and taking the last name. Like that heart removal scene with the Nazi ... Like "take husbands name cause it sounds nice" then "take husbands name by ripping it out of his chest and devouring his essence"

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    I'm sorry Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that.

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  • [–] 10 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    My wife kept her last name because she's a published academic, but her last name is a slang word for something related to genitals (won't dox myself here) so we agreed any kids we have get my last name.

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  • [–] 22 points 5 months ago

    Religion is so dumb

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Spain has the best system. Everyone has two last names, one from father and one from mother. Women keep their names after marriage. Children get first last name of the father and first last name of the mother.

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  • [–] 11 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Who cares about what some guys made up hundreds and thousands of years ago?

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  • [–] 10 points 5 months ago

    Who need gender equality and freedom when you can be a prisoner with limited freedom?

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago

    Men and woman are equal, so use your grandfather's last name!

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