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[+] 59 points 7 months ago (11 children)
  • [–] 38 points 7 months ago (5 children)

    I have seen this approach from other people as well. How do you feel about them knowing your custom domain? Then it's easier to search for other mail addresses of that domain as well?

    I use the aliases from Proton which make me feel a bit more 'safe'. Downside is that I'm locked into Proton.. :)

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  • [–] 13 points 7 months ago

    That has happened to me... twice. Once they sent spam to abuse@ and once to postmaster@. Both of those are "well-known" addresses that received one spam mail each.

    Having your own domain with a catch-all address is rare enough that spammers don't seem to try to target it.

    Meanwhile I set up straight-to-spam rules for a handful of companies that leaked my email address. Very useful.

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  • [–] 9 points 7 months ago

    I also use a custom domain. Basically, as long as you accept that the domain might be linked to your IRL name, it's more of a privacy issue in that regard. The custom domain means you don't ever have to stick with one company forever, also. My email address is portable to any hosting service.

    Spammers and scammers work in databases of hundreds of thousands of records they buy. Anything that doesn't immediately return a hit is chaff to be deleted. There's no incentive to root through thousands of credential combos and see if your human brain can see a pattern to tweak, short of targeted attacks about you as a person. If the custom domain doesn't stand out as a business with website worth sending ransomware, what's the reason to be a target? No one will waste time on a custom domain just in hopes of getting someone's 27 addresses just to send important dick pill meds spam.

    I get zero spam after a year or so with a custom domain. My neutered gmail still gets flooded with spam.

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  • [+] 16 points 7 months ago (2 children)
  • [–] 18 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    I use thepresident@whitehouse.gov. The only website I've found that won't take this address is quiznos wifi

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago* (2 children)

    huh, i'd try potus at whatever dot shit i'm taking more energy avoiding typing that but spite is one hell of a motivator. might work.

    or a.scalia at scotus dot gov i'm pretty sure that one is real

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  • [–] 11 points 7 months ago

    I used to live like a savage with everything tied to one email, and had a few regular spam shields. Damned fool small smooth brain idiot way of living!

    I don't know why I didn't do a custom domain 10 years ago. The level of security buffering it offers is worth every penny alone. Someone gets aggressively spammy? Fine, I'll delete the fucking email address, enjoy the bounceback, dicks. Every breach reinforces the idea that this is a good call, giving data leaks worthless garbage. It genuinely gives me a feeling of freedom.

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  • [+] 26 points 7 months ago (17 children)
  • [–] 23 points 7 months ago (7 children)

    Yeah, a dead one that literally doesn’t function anymore. If they “require confirmation” then I no longer need to read whatever is being gatekept.

    Also, 90% of the time, a@b.com works.

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  • [–] 10 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    Also, 90% of the time, a@b.com works.

    I'm always amused how often fuck@you.com works

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    I feel bad for whoever owns you.com

    Seems like it would be an innocent new agey spiritual affirmation kind of site. Actually, it’s probably some bullshit, so never mind.

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    Sort of. I have a "catch-all" address (that's just the most legit looking result to a search for the phrase, I won't vouch for whether it's a good site). Basically anything@domain.com goes to spam@domain.com. It's a bit awkward if you need to respond, but otherwise, it's good for signing up to sites and it makes it easy to filter out ones that spam you and don't provide a good unsubscribe link.

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    psst, if you have a catchall like that, you can probably SEND from anything@yourdomain.com too! We sure can.

    You just need a client that lets you type in the From field. Some do, some don't.

    -- Frost

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (1 child)

    As much as I'm mildly technically competent, I tend to interact with my email from a browser. Generally speaking, it's not that easy to alter headers in that environment.

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  • [–] 24 points 7 months ago (1 child)
  • [–] 22 points 7 months ago (4 children)

    Ugh, yeah. I got gifted an article and now they won't leave me alone. I can't get off their email list without giving them my email that they already have so I can make an account with them I don't want so I can get off the email list I'm already on. FFS man

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  • [–] 12 points 7 months ago (7 children)

    I always make up an email address. fakename@fakedomain.com. If they require a confirmation, I use a forwarder and forward to a yahoo account that I never use and has all fake profile info. Fake name, fake birthday, fake profile pic. I log in maybe twice per year and delete everything.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Make your first or last name the name of the website so you know who sold your email address to spammers.

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  • I have a catch-all email domain, and this is exactly what I do. Walmart gets “walmart@example.com”, Target gets “target@example.com”, etc… All of them go to the same inbox, so I always know which email address they think I have. If I start getting spam addressed to walmart@example.com, I know Walmart sold my info. I can just filter anything addressed to that account straight into my spam folder.

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  • [+] 10 points 7 months ago (8 children)
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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (3 children)

    They were founded as a reaction to the other big paper's european correspondent being sorta communist.

    Theyve only gotten more reactionary since.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago

    Lmao they never consider that you have like. 5 emails.

    What a fucking concept.

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    And getting a lot more difficult to find email that doesn't want your phone number, while getting more difficult to buy a phone without giving out your personal information.

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  • [–] 0 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Use the element zapper mode in uBlock Origin. Makes the shit go away

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