I used to think I was 100% ace, and I still do identify with the ace label, but it turns out I'm only ace under the traditional cishet idea of sex. Having had My bottom surgery and learned about the secret kinds of sex that the patriarchy doesn't want you to know about, I've discovered I actually like sex! Just not the kind of sex you find in consensus reality. So to humans and realists, I'm asexual, and I continue to claim that label as long as I'm surrounded by humans and realists, but asexuality is not the truth of My soul. It is only a circumstantial and temporary state of affairs.
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That really is a tragic misuse of that meme format, but its okay.
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You really shouldn't have mentioned the misuse of the meme format. You need to develop a lot of restraint.
Can I ask what allo(s)? means?
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Allosexual is Latin for "sexually attracted to others", as in, other people. Asexual, allosexual, and autosexual are the three broadest categories of sexuality. L, G, and B are all variants of allosexuality.
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Autosexual meaning "wanking in front of the mirror"?
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I agree it's confusing. Being sexually attracted to things that aren't sexy (marking a majority of porn as not attractive),,, is way different from lacking sexual attraction


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