The problem is that 4chan is too degenerate and reddit is too, well... reddit. Unfortunately Lemmy is far from perfect as well.
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I hate how much over reach the mods have. Reddit doesn’t want to pay them so they let them have absolute power in their subs and thousands of people are punished because the mods wife cheated on him with his brother and he’s having a bad week.
I was banned from the whole site because a mod got mad that I reported someone for abusive behavior that said mod agreed with.
I got banned because I said “1 like = 1 wank” in r/entertainment about a pornstar that had died. I thought it would be fitting but I guess I was wrong.
"Everywhere I go smells like shit."
Can't wait till I see the greentext screenshots from 4chan about trying Lemmy only to discover it's just Reddit. This site is the ultimate "we're not Reddit!"
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On a note regarding relationship advice, that's so fucking true and I was always being downvoted there for pointing that out. I wonder how many relationships got broken because of Reddit's advice on some of the minor and normal relationship problems that could be solved by talking it out instead of "that's a red flag just dump them bro".
As AVGN once put it, it's like choosing the dog shit that is all mushy and wet that has been in the shade all day, vs. the dog shit that has dried out in the sun across the street. Yes, the dried out dog shit is still better to step in, but it is still dog shit.
Bro is posting this transphobic garbage on 4chan like they didn't all want to suck girlcock there too 🙄
these people think women can have dicks
There it is. I was suspicious of this person's politics from the "virtually every topic known to man".

Random transphobia in there can fuck right off
Yeeeeeaaaaah, when I read the bit about narrow talking points being allowed, I knew the author was either going to have a good point about Reddit's tendency to circlejerk, or be a bigoted piece of shit. Not really shocked it's the latter.
They're coming from 4chan. It was obvious how it was going to go just by the format of the post, before reading a single word
4th item is most likely referring to r/conservative as well which means they're also mad they can't participate in the hate chamber
Eh probably not, I used to get messages all the time saying "Oh you were subscribed to or posted in r/thisbullshit so we went ahead and banned you." even though I didn't even remember subscribing to or posting in said subreddit
Also Reddit's policy is officially that you cannot be banned from one subreddit for something that happened in another. This policy is so god damn ignored, that you'd think it was an officer's oath to serve and protect.
Random? That or some other bigoted bullshit was forecast to come from the third sentence.
Indeed, one thing I love about being trans is that it gives me a radar for if someone is being based or just an asshole.
If I detect transphobia I realize it's just assholery.
I wish there was a board where people would have the ideology of the left but without bring so triggered by anything.
Just no concept of humor as a coping mechanism.
Sir this is Lemmy. People are even more up their butts here than Reddit
Surely thats your own lemmy instance ? other instances can federate or defederate as they want (or piefed)
I've had the fortune to post on niche micro-imageboards like that, irreverent but not hateful.
They just have to stay small otherwise the classic issue of "Any community that gets its laughs by pretending to be idiots will eventually be flooded by actual idiots who mistakenly believe that they're in good company" arises and now you can't post pictures of black people without a chance of triggering the trolls.
It seems like you are getting either one extreme or the other. I'd be fine with no extremism on either political side and more rational moderation.
rational moderation is a pipedream
there used to be a /leftypol/ somewhere but it was all Stirnerists for some reason
Ummm this is actually so toxic and disrespectful. People on the left care about and advocate for marginalised people and so adding humour to them is a pretty bad look sweety. I think, respectfully, you should delete this now. And maybe catch up on some of your leftist reading... This comment gives me pretty yikes vibes..
The fact anon used IPA as an example in the context of "acronyms they had to go look up the meaning of" says a lot about them, ngl.
The tacked on casual transphobia finishes painting the picture of the sorta person they are.
"I was sucking my wife's cock the other day, and it reminded me of this International Phonetic Alphabet I had recently!"
I've had that kind of sex lol.
I was confused when I read the transphobia part, then I remembered this was 4chan and cringed
Had me until the transphobia
I've found some of the more shit post focused communities to actually be useful (or at least I did back when i still used Reddit).
PrisonHooch had more helpful advice and recommendations than HomeBrewing; PoliticalCompassMemes actually allowed space for Leftists to debate the Far-Right; Cremposting was where you went to discuss your tinfoil hat theory's on the works of Brandon Sanderson; etc. (I know there was a dozen or so of these I used to lean into, but those are the three that immediately come to mind).
2westerneurope4u unironically has some of the most important and honest discussions among Europeans, because people don't need to worry that much about what they are writing. They have mastered less moderation, without becoming a hate filled cesspool.
Don't suppose they have a fediverse equivalent space?
Asking about it was literally my first post on here. It would probably be against the rules, because a big part of it is making fun of national stereotypes and it might look racist, if you didn't know what's going on. I recommend checking it out on reddit. I think you'll quickly realize why it would be a problem here and you also run the risk of people taking it literally and attracting the wrong crowd.
So found the Reddit reposting bot for it at !2westerneurope4u@lemmit.online (its just a not that reposts thing from Reddit).
!2westerneurope4u@reddthat.com looks more active. I'll take a peek at it this weekend.
Never ask 2westerneurope4u what they think about Sinti and Roma or eastern Europeans.
I don't think most of them have a problem with eastern europe (except russia maybe).
They are an ethnicity. To the extent that you can trace Romaní ancestry in people. They have multiple related languages across Europe. This isn't a lifestyle, it's an ethnicity.
It seems to be both: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Itinerant_groups_in_Europe
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romani_people They are very explicitly an ethnic group associated with a lifestyle. Not just a lifestyle.
Fake: anon hates reddit because they have jargon (every language has it)
Gay: women can and do have dicks, gtfo with transphobia
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