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[–] 65 points 9 months ago* (7 children)

I mean pretty easy for a pretty, skinny girl whose profile is nothing but thirst trap pics with a link to her onlyfans page to say.

Not so easy for the unfortunate looking women who hit on me and I politely try to let them down as kindly as possible.

There are extremely sadly ugly people out there of all genders. They didn't ask to be born that way but it is not easy for them.

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  • [–] 15 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    Yeah I've rejected girls before. I haven't felt good about it. As I got older I tried to oblige as much as possible even if I wasn't that into it. But then you have to let them down afterwards too. But generally less painful I think that way.

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  • [–] 6 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    did you really just did type that fucking a girl who likes you for a while before you reject them makes it less painful for them? or did you mean just like chatting for a while

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  • [–] 15 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    They were pretty vague about it, but I'd assume they'd just go on one or two dates instead of having sex.

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  • [–] 9 points 9 months ago

    I have learned some people equate dates to sex. I've had to make it clear that unless the chemistry is way out of control and we can't deny it in the moment, I don't want to get into her pants right away as it will make the natural progression of a secure relationship more difficult.

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  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

    Your comment reminds me of these lyrics from Hobo Johnson and The Lovemakers song "Sex and The City"

    [Intro] Caller: "Okay so the first one, I do have to ask. - Would you be able to pay the balance in full today? $691?"

    • Frank: "No I can't"
    • Caller: "Okay, no problem. So what we can do is break that up into three monthly payments."

    [Verse 1]

    • Beautiful people only live in downtown
    • And midtown and not around where I stay
    • Is it their brain that really matters
    • Or their character that flatters
    • Or dependant on their beautiful face
    • But if you're beautiful from birth, do you really have the courage
    • Of a woman picked on for girth
    • Ever since she was a kid, and you know how kids work
    • Up until she was a full-grown adult
    • Now I'm not saying that it's really smooth sailing
    • But guys, being nice doesn't hurt
    • And I'm not saying that they're perfect
    • I'm just saying that they're different
    • And the difference is they love to wear skirts

    [Chorus]

    • Sex in the city
    • Probably feels really really nice
    • With hands placed on faces and twinkles in their eyes
    • Sex in the city
    • Probably looks really really great with
    • A girl that's like a ten and a guy that's 'bout an eight
    • Sex in the city
    • Sounds like it takes place on stage
    • Both moaning in key while Marvin Gaye sings
    • Sex in the city
    • Candles smell like great jobs and promising careers
    • My candles smell like fear my roommates may hear

    [Verse 2]

    • I have really bad back-ne
    • It looks like the gosh-dang night sky
    • And I promise I'm gonna get it taken care of
    • So I'm not a baby maker looker, but maybe I am
    • To a woman that really loves me for
    • Who I am
    • ...Or maybe who I'm not
    • Either way, it's getting bothered and hot—gross!
    • Hey missus, would you take me to a world
    • Where nothing else exists except
    • The contents of our soul
    • And there we'll talk
    • Y'know, or Instragram DM works too (whatup!)
    • If I look like Brad Pitt mixed with bit of Jake Gyllenhaal
    • And a bowl of David Hasselhoff I wouldn't be here at all
    • I'd be in Los Angeles
    • Or at your mom's house eating all the sandwiches!

    [Chorus]

    • Sex in the city
    • Probably feels really really nice
    • With hands placed on faces and twinkles in their eyes
    • Sex in the city
    • Probably looks really really great with
    • A girl that's like a ten and a guy that's 'bout an eight
    • Sex in the city
    • Sounds like it takes place on stage
    • Both moaning in key while Marvin Gaye sings
    • Sex in the city
    • Candles smell like great jobs and promising careers
    • My candles smell like fear my roommates may hear... and socks

    [Outro]

    • And whatever freshening spray I use
    • Thirty minutes beforehand
    • While I was quickly running through my room trying to clean it
    • Right, uh? Right, uh? I'm right, uh?
    • You think this song's about to end, is that what you think?
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  • [–] 25 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    so true. if you walk up to me in the middle of the night and ask me if i will have sex with you, i'll probably say yes

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  • [–] 17 points 9 months ago

    Anyone that gets little attention will likely be easier to get with because they're so unused to anything like it.

    It's overwhelming and intoxicating to suddenly seemingly be the center of someone else's world and desires when you never experience anything like it in your day to day life. Or maybe ever.

    It's like not knowing you've been living in a desert your whole life and it suddenly starts to rain and you realize you're not a cactus, you're a willow tree and you need rain to live.

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  • [–] 47 points 9 months ago* (2 children)

    I've lived for 45 years and never heard anyone call women easy. Quite the opposite.

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  • [–] 46 points 9 months ago

    Some men call women they failed to get with easy, just because other men had more success with her. These insults are almost never about the women themselved but the men trying to make themselves feel better about their failure.

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  • [–] 13 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Me, a super ultra mega gay: my time has come, try me thot

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  • [–] 24 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    It really is a double standard. A woman can sleep with a few guys and get labeled easy/slut/whore/etc. But if I do it they call me gay.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago

    What makes you think it was intended as an insult?

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago

    unless he had a wfe who would kill you both if got with another woman

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  • [–] -1 points 9 months ago
    [–] 0 points 9 months ago*

    ... This is a self fulfilling prophecy.

    She's met men who were hard to get with.

    They weren't interested in her, or they didn't hit her radar level, and it never even occured to her to consider them as potential partners, or they were already married or in committed, faithful monogamous relationships.

    She's telling on herself, and doesn't realize it.

    If she's only met men who were easily to get with... that's all she's looking for, all she can see.

    And this applies in reverse as well, or in any other gender ... direction.

    This is just myopia, idpol, immaturity... we're really still doing this?

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