I wonder if the jocks also feel resentment for being pushed beyond their means instead of being allowed to go at their own pace, and not feel guilt for simply being “average?”

“Gifted” usually meant neurodivergent and quiet, so made to shut up and be exploited for brownie points that parents can wave around like trophies.

Solidarity with all affected parties, to be honest.

Hah i am both. It’s great to be a double disappointment to my family

What about the opposite, "smart kid but doesn't study"? Turns out not everyone is compatible with the educational environment.