To clarify, I don't mean an employee sleeping with their literal direct boss. Here is what I mean: if a 23-year-old police officer is in a romantic or sexual relationship with a 57-year-old police captain, sergeant or lieutenant, then that 23-year-old police officer should be promoted to detective or something or at least have some authority in their unit. Now that's just an example; this goes for any job: firefighter, doctor, military – anything really. If you are old enough to consent to be in a relationship with someone who is a higher rank, then I think that should qualify you to at least move up to some degree.

I'm not saying give that 23-24-year-old the biggest position in the job, but move them up a rank or two.

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[–] 28 points 1 year ago

Why ? Why should we promote people in the hierarchy based on whose they are fucking with ?

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    TIL that authority is an STD.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    Sounds like someone regrets sleeping with a higher up and wants compensation.

    Or, I got it backwards and you're wishing there's a way to pay someone back for some amazing blowjobs.

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  • [–] 26 points 1 year ago

    If I were you I would start investigating why I view sex as transactional

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago

    You should concentrate on the shower part, the other part isn't your strong suit.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago

    "Ethics? What are those?"

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    What happens when the relationship breaks down? Does the person get demoted back to their original position?

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago

    What a bizarre take

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

    you are asking people to fuck merits!

    funny part is, OP is saying that it is unethical for them to not compensate to these poor souls 😰

    Hey, it's fair right?, if young hot lady maintains romantic or sexual relations with higher ranking military using her seduction skills to get promotion. Others soldiers are using also using their skills. so IG all animals have their weapons. Instead of spending years in battles, why don't someone should take the shortcut. who cares about defending/extending our culture? What really matter is our own self-interest.

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  • internal fraternizing (sleeping with employees) is a common ground rule at work to be fired. Getting away with breaking this rule, puts persons in a position to break more\other work rules. This state exists in places with bad managers or bad employees.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    OP, please, for the love of whatever deity you hold sacred, get help. Talk to someone, anyone, who can help you work through your many many issues and misconceptions about reality.

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  • [–] -3 points 1 year ago

    Imagine the white house full of women cuz the president couldn't keep it in, or vice versa.

    Not a statement of our current political situation or anything, I honestly don't give two sh#ts about it cuz it's the same as having a gun to your head and forced to either eat dog sh#t or bull sh#t. I hate politics cuz most people in power suck, and everyone who follows turns into their mouth pieces... I should just live in the woods at this point.

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