The home, which was run by an order of Catholic nuns and closed in 1961, was one of many such institutions that housed tens of thousands of orphans and unmarried pregnant women who were forced to give up their children throughout much of the 20th century.

In 2014, historian Catherine Corless tracked down death certificates for nearly 800 children who died at the home in Tuam between the 1920s and 1961 — but could only find a burial record for one child.

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[–] 238 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I'm old enough to remember everyone getting all bent out of shape by Sinead O'Connor ripping up a picture of the Pope.

She was a couple of years early, but right.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    It's worth mentioning that Joe Pesci did SNL the following week and said "I would have gave [sic] her such a smack. I would've grabbed her by her ... eyebrows." AFAIK he has never apologized for this.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Not only Joe Pesci, also Madonna and others. But fuck Joe Pesci for not even apologizing after her death.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    NBC did not rebroadcast the live performance unedited until 2025, when it was featured in the documentary film Ladies & Gentlemen... 50 Years of SNL Music. In it, Lorne Michaels stated that he had "admired the bravery of what she'd done, and also the absolute sincerity of it", though no mention was made of prior negative comments from him or the show.

    Oh FUCK Lorne Michaels. What a lying sack of dog feces.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago

    She didn't really explain much at the time though, and when she did it never got a lot of publicity. People thought she was just attacking Catholics as a whole.

    All most people saw was her ripping up a picture, going "fight the real enemy" and then a bunch of smear articles about her going mental.

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  • [–] [S] 92 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Wikipedia article: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bon_Secours_Mother_and_Baby_Home .

    The mothers were required to stay inside the home for one year, doing unpaid work for the nuns, as reimbursement for some of the services rendered. They were separated from their children, who remained separately in the home, raised by nuns, until they could be adopted – often without consent.

    Some women who had had two confinements were sent directly to nearby Magdalene laundries after giving birth, as punishment for their perceived "recidivism". According to Professor Maria Luddy, "Such a stance, though not intended to be penal, allowed for the development of an attitude that accepted detention as a means of protecting society from these reoffending women.

    Confinements. Punishment. Detention. Reoffending women.

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  • [–] 63 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Every time I run into a pro lifer, I tell them about what happened in Ireland.

    Most of them ignore me, some say it's worth it.

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  • [–] 58 points 1 year ago

    If your society cannot or will not support an unmarried pregnant woman on her own, your society is a failed one.

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  • [–] 112 points 1 year ago (13 children)

    Satanic Panic was projection.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (10 children)

    If we do shit like this, imagine what they could do!

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (9 children)

    Yeah, and the irony is that in the Bible, Lucifer never even asked for an animal or human sacrifice, but god did.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    The serpent never even told Eve to eat the fruit (the fruit of the knowledge of good and evil, why would God create such a tree and why wouldn't he want humans to have such knowledge? So stupid). All it did was tell her that it was an option.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Not to mention they literally had no concept of good and evil prior to eating it. Therefore they literally could not have known disobeying God was a bad thing. It's all just so fucking ridiculous that people buy this shit.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    I asked that question when I was a kid in catechism class. To the credit of the Dominican brother who was teaching the class, he wasn't reactive, but later had a side-talk with me about demanding logical consistency from allegory. But that realization planted the seed that eventually led to my abandoning religion.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

    If we go after things that weren't said in the Bible then hell as we imagine should be among the first. Maybe that's the reason clergy are so beyond repair?

    And while we are at it, the description of hell we used to is Dante's storytelling of Hieronymus Bosch's interpretation of an Irish monk's account of a early medieval Cork knight's bagd trip.

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  • [–] 53 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

    My dad recent got a decent payout for being the internationally trafficked childhood victim of one of these unwed mother homes…

    Not worth his lifetime of trauma, nor the issues that came with being sold at age 4 to a “keeping up appearances” family that sent him away to boarding school on top of everything..

    But it’s something.. he’s mid 70s, so you know, totally enough time to use the money.

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  • [–] 23 points 1 year ago

    My brain took a moment to register the word infant. As in the child was already born.

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  • [–] 83 points 1 year ago (13 children)

    To the "religion is what makes us civil" crowd, fuck off all the way to whatever hell you believe in or just the sun.

    Disclaimer: This is not a call for violence.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I have never understood this pseudo-argument. Christian morality is based on the fear of eternal punishment. Do these fools even realize that?! Morality can be explained much more comprehensibly and naturally through evolution and empathy.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    My main issue in discussions on religion is that either side generally claims that either "it makes us civil", as you say, or that "it's the cause of evil". In reality it's neither. Religion has traditionally been (still is, I'm afraid) a powerful form of crowd control that in past times has steered some believers into doing better deeds by the duality of the hell-heaven system, and likewise has twisted others into extremism and using religion as justification for evil acts. Most of the time it's just a simple way of life that rids you of the need to question the universe and to carve your own path. As a "Muslim" I sometimes, in some ways, envy those that simply view the etiquettes, laws, and traditions that govern their lives as unquestionable truths. There's no need to search for purpose, you're already born with it.

    Humans are flawed and evil. That is true with or withour religion.

    Sorry for rambling.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago*

    Religion, from the start, has been used primarily as a means of control. It is a system that is built for "flawed and evil" humans to exploit in order to oppress and control others.

    Anything good that might come from that is incidental and in spite of that.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    I think you nailed it here. The successful religions are the ones that are useful as tools for the powerful. It's not the cause of evil, but it's something that lets powerful people convince people to do awful things.

    On the other hand, for the believers, it's a source of community and comfort. They're given simple rules to follow and promised that their suffering is not in vain. It gives them simple answers to complex questions.

    It also allows people to get over feeling bad. A bad thing is "part of god's plans". A bad thing you did is not really your fault because a trickster god made you do it, or the devil made you do it, so you don't need to do any self-reflection. Or, a bad thing happened to you or someone you love, that's just a bad god, or a devil, or a complex part of a god's plan, so you don't need to worry about it. This is all really useful for leaders, because they're inevitably closer to the gods than the people they control, and they get to use excuses like "you're suffering because the gods are unhappy with you" or "it's your lot in life, because you were born to that caste" or "this was all because of this wicked group of other people who believe in a different god, so we should kill them and take their land".

    Humans are flawed and sometimes evil, but religion is a very useful tool to manipulate those people.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago

    "civil"

    Recently in England there was a Turkish man burning the koran... a Muslim guy came out and lunged at him several times with a knife he just happened to have on him shouting "you will not burn my holy book" or some such, the book burner was charged by the police (the bible can be burnt in England but for some reason the koran cannot). Kier Starmer didn't want to progress an investigation into child abuse because of how it will expose the Muslim men abusing working class young white girls because their religion states girls who don't cover their hair are sluts.

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  • [–] -1 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    I’m pretty sure it’s more like: religions define what we find civil as a society. Personal spiritual beliefs define what people find acceptable and unacceptable. Religion align spiritual beliefs among social groups.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Numbers 31:18

    But all the women children, that have not known a man by lying with him, keep alive for yourselves.

    You can keep the "religion defines what we find civil as a society." Miss me with all of the shit.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Id say religion tends to be more of a reflection of what a society finds as civil. Look at other religions around the world, or historical religions and there are some things that would be entirely unacceptable in my local society at least.

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  • [–] 76 points 1 year ago (21 children)

    Religion has historically provided a safe haven to the sick and twisted among society, where they're allowed to act with impunity due to their perceived status.

    That's not directly due to the religion; but rather due to the societal pedestal being devout seems to put people on; "a holy person could never do that to a child" etc...

    The reality is, other areas that benefit from this sort of status too find themselves riddled with bad actors... Just look through charity organisations and I can guarantee you'll be combing over a sea of sociopaths buying themselves good credit with public opinion rather than people looking to make a difference because they want to (not to say these people don't exist; they just don't end up running the show normally)

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    All inequality creates abuse.

    Your last paragraph reminded me of Ashton Kutcher… I can’t watch that 70s show anymore. It was my favorite tv show of all time.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (3 children)

    You mean Masterson? Or am I forgetting some gross shit Ashton Kutcher did?

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)

    The both of them are complete gross. Ashton started a charity when he was with Demi on combating child sexual abuse and exploitation, and he wrote a letter defending/supporting Danny in the trial.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    Ah right, I remember that.

    To be fair, those are two different levels of shittiness... I would say his monetary contribution probably accomplished much more than his letter.

    Yes, gross thing to do. But does it really compare to the actual crimes Masterson committed?

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I can’t watch that 70s show anymore. It was my favorite tv show of all time.

    I used to love The Cosby Show. Unwatchable now even if they would still air it.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago* (2 children)

    Look into any situation where there is a massive disparity of power between some people and other people and that's were you will find the most abuses and I totally agree it's for the reasons you said of there being far less risk for the abusers due to their "status" and that such places actually attract the worst people in society so it's a bit of self-fullfilling prophecy that putting too much power and not enough transparency and accountability in a position will invariably end up with it being abused, even if you start with the purest of people and the purest of intentions.

    This is also probably why there was (and only time will tell if that's still or not the case) so much child sexual abuse in the Catholic church: adult in high standing in the community and implicitly trusted by all vs child (generally from a poor background).

    Thinking about this over the years (mainly for Politics, but it applies to other areas) has led me to conclude that the "good" exercise of power is impossible to get from a static situation (i.e. the idealistic idea that "give power to honest people" solves it) and instead it has to be setup as a dynamic mechanism with frequent rotation of people and multiple unrelated (ideally, competing) people watching over each other other (which is probably where the ide behind the Three Pillars Of Democracy) and whose power balances.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Exactly concentrating power in the hands of a few is a recipe for disaster, doesn't matter if you elect uncle Roger to the post. Power needs to be distributed and the people who have it should be in constant fear of losing it if they don't work towards gaining the favor of the masses by working towards the betterment of society. This is why I find morons who pick political sides as if it's a sports team so stupid, neither side should think you belong to them, they should worry about you flipping your mind all the time.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (8 children)

    The rosy romanticisation of what should be a humanitarian entity is probably worst with Buddhism. The Buddhist majority-Burmese oppressing the Rohyngian Muslims, some Buddhist monks advocating for dominance in South East Asia, and even pre-CCP Tibet where the dalai lama and his ilks were decadent and corrupt, seem unfathomable for many who view Buddhism as the most secular and least dogmatic religion. There was an article I have read lamenting this corruption in Buddhist communities, and I was like "they are still humans, what do you expect?"

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (7 children)

    Fuck off sino shill, CCP is not doing any Tibetans favour's by invading their country, they are a bunch of corrupt dictators

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  • [–] -3 points 1 year ago* (6 children)

    Not making CCP any better here, but truth is truth and doesn't care about your feelings. Was it China's business to invade Tibet? No, but pre-CCP Tibet was a corrupt theocratic state similar to Iran and Renaissance-era Vatican.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    And what's your source for any of this, I can bring up multiple sources for the atrocities done by the CCP on their own citizens (tiananmen square massacre) and those of neighboring nations, can you back up any of what you claim about Tibet, and even if it were true that does not give China any rights to invade them. Should the other countries invade China for their corrupt leaders then?

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Take a deep cleansing breath. Now look at it with this more neutral framing: the last time the lamas were in power, what was it like? Was it some ideal, benign society or not?

    And whether life under the CCP is any better is a separate question. From what I can tell, there's been a systematic effort by the CCP to extinguish all aspects of Tibetan national identity. That's probably Han racism packaged as anti-nationalism, but regardless, it's shitty and slow-motion genocidal.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Unhelpful American chiming in: if the Finns, or Danes are feeling feisity we could really use a regime change..

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    I don't want those fuckers taking over, building saunas and nice bakeries everywhere, forcing us to have government accountability, good universal healthcare and employment rights.

    Actually, I may have spoken too soon...

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago*

    You could literally google and see sources what life was like in Tibet before. China is bad, and Tibet before was bad. Many things can be true at the same time. It is just the fact of life. No one is backing up China, it is only you problem if that is you are being emotional on a factual statement.

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  • [–] 20 points 1 year ago

    What the fuck

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago* (4 children)

    All these institutions of god trying to tell us our souls will be saved if we follow them. and that the "other" religions are prophligates, infidels, devils and heretics. LMAO

    I've yet to find one that isn't hiding a history of butchery

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Buddhist temple, tibetan monks, the dali lama? or are they on that list too?

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    The Burmese Buddhists are on board with the regimes genocide against the Rohingyas. The Sri Lankan Buddhist Sinhalese were quite happy to attempt to exterminate their Tamil population. Japanese Buddhists overwhelmingly supported the military regime in WW2.

    I'm not so familiar with Tibetan history, so I'll not comment on that. But Buddhists as a whole don't seem any more peaceful than anyone else.

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  • [–] 50 points 1 year ago (11 children)

    How could these nuns think they would be admitted to heaven?

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  • [–] 70 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    One of the selling features of Christianity is that you just need to ask Jesus forgiveness and it will be granted.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Because they didn't allow abortion. That's how

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    Religion is such hypocrisy. No wonder people are turning away.

    On one hand, they tell people don't use birth control, no abortion ; on the other hand, they don't protect them.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago (11 children)

    How do they determine age with a DNA test? Wouldn’t say look at the remains from the death baby’s? I have questions.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago* (4 children)

    dna gives you parent gives you when they were there? assuming they kept records of who lived there.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    But that would mean they collected maternal samples as well. And they didn’t say that. In the 60s that is highly unlikely.

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    I don’t know how the laws are in different countries but just analysing and matching them against anyone sounds highly illegal to me. Next, people need to first be sequenced. Unless they asked them, how do they have their data if they are highly private.

    Maybe my question was misleading: for me it sounded like they only analysed the infant DNA and did not perform matches etc. if they used skull size etc to identify the victims it wasn’t a DNA analysis to identify the victim.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    The article is crap. The DNA is used to ID siblings, relatives. That's however not the only thing they got wrong

    See here for example: The true horror of Irish mother and baby homes | ARTE.tv Documentary

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