Me because I’m not out yet to my transphobic family who I live with…

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[–] 60 points 1 year ago

Hey bro, it sucks; they themselves are too lame for that healthy masculinity of you.

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  • [–] 55 points 1 year ago

    There's a pretty simple and straightforward way to make them feel and look really stupid for doing this, although it takes time and dedication: hit the gym and get fucking JACKED. Then, whenever they call you by your female dead name in public, everyone will think they're stupid.

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  • [–] 42 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Well I feel dumb. I read it as the mother being supportive to her daughter then saw the description and realized it was a mother being unsupportive of her son.

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  • [–] 33 points 1 year ago*

    “You were supposed to breast boobily to the stairs and tit downward!”

    They say, as he pecs pectorily to the stairs and pecs downward.

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  • [–] 26 points 1 year ago*

    Hang in there bro, it gets better.

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago

    That sucks dude. 🫂 I hope you have a stellar day despite them.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago

    Sorry dude, that sucks. Hopefully you can get your feet under you soon to get your independence.

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  • [–] 19 points 1 year ago

    mrrrreow :3 🫂🫂

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    [–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-CHERRYBOMB!

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago* (3 children)

    My ma said I couldn't be trans because I didn't care about *Checks Notes* grooming my eyebrows. Specifically because I didn't want someone else doing it for me at a salon.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago* (2 children)

    ...does she think that no man ever gets his eyebrows trimmed? It's pretty far from being a meaningful concern of mine, but it's something I've absolutely been offered (and occasionally accepted) when getting a hair cut.

    I guess it's also possible I have the scenario reversed and she thinks no woman gets this done, but I feel like that doesn't line up as well with the assumed stereotypes here.

    Or I guess another option is she thinks every single (insert transitioned gender) must do so.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Right, I'm MtF, and figured I'd at least try to come out to my ma before I took my first DIY injection.

    She thought I was kidding, then the stuff came in the mail and she thought I was hysterical, then we had a long conversation about it and now she thinks I'm confused. Think it'll turn out fine with more time but she did tell me that every single woman trims their eyebrows and I couldn't be trans because I hadn't been.

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