I called out my dad for his hateful views on social media. Really hateful. Like calling Michelle Obama a monkey and calling for the extermination of lgbtq+. I told him I've had more people in those groups help me in my life than he ever has, and by being passive towards his hate I was dishonoring them and the work they did for me.

He wrote me out of his will. (I didn't lose much, he made near minimum wage his whole life, but it's all he had left to do). He hasn't spoken to me in 9 years now since then. Don't care. Much better people have filled the role.

I played D&D.

Apparently I’m a satan worshiper now.

My mother abandoned her kids shortly after birth. I haven’t had contact with her for 20ish years. My sibling has kept loose contact and my mother has treated them like garbage and even robbed them on one occasion.

So I guess the answer is: nothing.

I came out of the closet.

No seriously; that's all it took. Lol

Nose piercing... I'd been a legal adult for 12 years at the time I got the piercing.

It hasn't happened yet, but I'm pretty sure they'll disown me whenever I tell them I'm trans.

That's really hard to narrow down; I suspect that she didn't really want me from some point in childhood onward. When I was a teen she said that her duty to God was completed once I turned 18, and she'd be rid of me. When I turned 17, she developed short-timers syndrome, if you'll pardon the slang, and I was kicked out. God's gonna be so maaaaaaaddd!

It was hard going for 10 or so years, but I'm 38 now and doing just fine.

Grew my hair into dreadlocks…. Got kicked Out of a will.

My siblings and I are living life on our own terms rather than be what our emotionally immature parents wanted us to be; follow the culture, religion, and their ideal success virtues. They're still in my life, but at a distance and limit, as I ain't got time for conditional love and endless comparisons.

It is not what I did, but who I am.

I kicked the toxic one out of my life. Who disowned who?

Quit school at 16 to join the workforce