The neuro urge to watch a kids show cos it doesn't take any emotional labour

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[–] 32 points 1 year ago (8 children)

We're watching different children's shows...

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  • [–] 26 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Most children's shows from my childhood ('80s/'90s) were glorified toy commercials. Hardly any plot, every conflict was resolved by the end of the episode, and the status quo was always maintained. You could watch episodes in any order and you wouldn't miss out on anything important.

    Not to mention, they had absolutely no standards for voice acting. Anyone could come in off the street and read lines and they'd put it in the show.

    I was surprised when I watched children's shows today and found they had interesting plots and stories with real emotional stakes. Steven Universe, Avatar, Miraculous Ladybug, OK K.O., The Owl House, Samurai Jack, etc.

    My wife and I started watching some children's shows with our young niece and nephew and we got so hooked, we went home and tracked them down to keep watching on our own! I wish I had shows like this when I was a kid.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I describe the age from Gravity Falls (maybe even started with Avatar) to the end of The Owl House as the platinum age of cartoons. So many stories and so many engaging fandoms. It’s not dead right now but it feels like we’re in a bit of a drought.

    My favorite kids show right now is Bluey. My wife and I don’t have kids and don’t want kids (at least for a while more) but we love watching Bluey. I’ve teared up too many times because it’s so relatable as an adult and it’s not just made for the kids. There’s jokes and references that only adults can get, but not crude.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    Gravity Falls is another excellent one! I was so sad when it ended. I wanted more! But I agree with it's creator, Alex Hirsch, that it needed to have a definite end so it doesn't drag on forever and eventually get bland.

    My wife and I tried to watch Bluey, but it felt like it was specifically made for parents and their kids, and we can't have children. So we had trouble getting into it. Which is a shame, because I hear from other adults how great that show is.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Them being fine out of order was ok when it applied to morality. Like I consider how my life would be different if thundercats and batman didnt shove the morality of the episode into my head. Shows today do it better but the difference is kids today can actually watch every episode in order vs the rng of a child's ability have access to a TV at the right time.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    kids today can actually watch every episode in order vs the rng of a child's ability have access to a TV at the right time

    I don't know, we managed to watch episodic stuff like Dragon Ball well enough, even if we missed an episode once in a while.

    And programmable VCRs were a thing.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Lol you watched it at 6 am too?

    I was a bit older when I was finally able to watch the whole show. Around middle school. Before that it was really inconvenient on TV.

    But when im saying kids I mean like under 7.

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  • [–] 28 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Just watch Adventure Time they said, it's just peacefully and good vibes, they said.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    No emotional labor

    Am I watching the wrong kid shows? 🤔

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  • [–] 84 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    Begging the internet to stop using "emotional labor" to mean "thinking about things".

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    Why are we calling everything neurodivergent now?

    These shows are written by adults, surely adults can enjoy them. Not everything needs to be the Illiad to have a complex plot, intriguing character development and a poignant message.

    Of course I'm talking about Gravity Falls.

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  • definitely no emotional trauma from she-ra 😭

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago

    I think I've watched more kids shows than adult shows in the past couple years but just because they're good shows!

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  • [+] 6 points 1 year ago (1 child)
  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    Gravity falls? 😈

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    I have nothing to say here.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    Not just emotional but intellectual. Video games to. I would be on mmo's and there was the pvpers type who wanted the game to be more challenging and then rp types like me that were like. I don't want a challenge I want to play with toys. Zoom Zoom. pew pew.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    Does passive consumption require labour?

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    The common mistake of mistaking a "children's show" based on something Astrid Lindgren wrote, for something that's emotionally light weight.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    I guess that would count for Shaun the Sheep, not so much for Bluey

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    More of a tastes thing over an emotional labor thing, but I absolutely LOVE animated kids shows/movies so much more than any other type of show/movie.

    Hell, been thinking recently about taking one of the OCs I have for the show Franklin, updating his backstory a little, and writing more fanfiction of him. Cringe? Maybe, but who cares!

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    Good idea!

    Settles in to watch the Nami's background/Arlong arc in One Piece.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    I watched all of Phineas and Ferb after I got my first job. The pros of getting an income and trying out all the things you parents didn't let you do as a kid.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    I find turning the color off (black and white) helps me to not get overwhelmed.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    Are you stalking me?

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    You can watch slop without it having anything to do with any neurodivergence whatsoever.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    I kind of watched them for different reasons. I think I started watching them because I had the idea I could filter out what shows I would let my future children watch but in doing so, I ended up liking the shows. Sarah and Duck is a nice one. Love Masha and the Bear.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    Also, the nice colours, and the plots that are actually internally consistent and flow logically. And the characters that aren't all brooding, narcissistic assholes.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    She is the new Valve logo?

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Does "Murder, She Wrote" count?

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  • oh dude we'd take at least a week between episodes of Broadchurch. Grew to miss those breaks the networks would give us.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    What about DS9

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Some kids shows are pretty good, they got away with doing stuff adults wouldve thought looked too low budget, so you get fun concepts that they dont tackle otherwise

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  • Yeah I aint got that. That's what playing STALKER is for.

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  • [+] 0 points 1 year ago (1 child)
  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago

    I don't like watch TV or movies at all. I prefer to watch a few select youtube channels I curate.

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