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[–] 46 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Just because I need a compatible personality doesn't mean I don't appreciate my partner's other features.

And for the record, ass.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Yeah, although having a compatible personality is great, being attracted to someone for their looks is in our biology. But I agree that personality is the most important aspect of a partner.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    personality is the hard limit, and appearance is the soft limit

    if you're miserable to be around then.. i'm not gonna be around you..
    if you're ugly that's unfortunate for both of us, but mercifully nature has programmed us to care less about that the more we spend time with someone, so if you're sufficiently pleasant to be around it'll probably work out anyways.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)
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    [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Having preferences isn't ablism.

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