I really like it when someone says that to me. "You can have both if you want." Which is true, but I realize now that I don't want both. I want a single dessert because I would feel ill after eating both. So now I have decided that I am intrinsically motivated to make a decision, it is easier to decide. Or we get both and eat half of each. Apes together strong, can eat two desserts.

she must have seized it

I use this more often

I usually let my wife pick two and we just share because she's I decisive and I don't care what I eat as long as she's happy.

Edit: also I don't like wasting 10 minutes for her to decide.

See, I'd say that to my husband too. What I really hope, is that he agrees, we get both and share. I don't want 2 but I want both flavours or its fomo.

LPT: When somebody asks if it's your birthday, you say YES!

Captain Holt: Right. Good desserts?

Amy: There are none. If you are hungry, you should have had more dinner.