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[–] 46 points 4 weeks ago (7 children)

You don't love your friends?

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  • [–] 6 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    I had a friend who had friends. They were my friends, until I lost that friend, and went back to zero again

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  • [–] 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    Yep, that's the serious problem you get if you're letting someone else do the work of maintaining friendships. You gotta reach out to people yourself.

    How to meet those ppl in the first place? No idea, I got like 5 ppl I still know from college and I'm holding on to em for dear life.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

    Yeah I've got a few mates. I see them maybe once or twice a year. It's... it's fine

    I just think back to that one social butterfly friend I had, who would invite me out 2-3 times a week. Night and day to how I live now

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  • [–] 10 points 3 weeks ago* (1 child)

    People dont know how to love each other anymore, you say you love someone, and they assume you want to be locked alone in a room with them for the rest of your lives

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago

    This! I can love my hookup for a couple of hours and then love "the witcher 3 free remaster" the next day. I hate that "I love you" carry so many additional meanings.

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  • [–] 10 points 3 weeks ago

    I used to have a friend that shared their steam library. Now that is what I call a benefit.

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  • [–] 7 points 3 weeks ago*

    You can love someone and not be romantically bound up with them. Relationships can be whatever you want them to be as long as both sides can come to an agreement. I love my FWB doesn't mean I'm trying to tie her down (at least not emotionally). I also love a bunch of my other friends who I'm not having benefits with.

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  • [–] 36 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

    It has nothing to do with prostitution. There's no money involved, and nobody gains anything material.

    I believe the idea is to just hook up, but with people you know and like, instead of strangers. Safer, probably cheaper, and maybe even beneficial outside of the obvious.

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  • [–] 5 points 3 weeks ago*

    Prostitution is the practice or act of engaging in sexual activity in exchange for money, food, rent, or other items of value. It is also widely referred to as commercial sex or sex work.

    Nothing in this lines up with a FWB relationship or recreational sex. Wtf other kind is there, do you fuck purely for reproductive purposes?

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