As my therapist likes to point out, no one is calling out my gross incompetence, so I can't be doing that bad.

How do we measure success? By most accounts, the people who have achieved the most success are viewed as monsters. The real challenge is finding what makes us content with what we have. I have cats and a tiny garden - it's where I put my love and energy. The food I grow is my sign of success.

Success was a lot easier when I stopped following the crowd and found happiness. What do you do well for yourself?

Get out some paper.

Draw a line right to left, then straight up, then diagonal from that top left to bottom right (triangle), then straight up, then close the box by going left, then give it a roof coming down to that top right (another triangle), finally go diagonally from the top right to bottom left.

Now you have the house (or barn) without lifting your pen.