Definitely. And that he came over and didn't pressure you into something as his reward is a massive green flag.
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Of course not.
Everybody likes to be awakened to go entertain someone all night long and get sleep deprived for the things we actually had to do in the morning.
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Wish you well on your blossoming relationship, love birds! 😊
He definitely likes you and it's 50/50 whether he thought your midnight call was a booty call. Get you some girl.
Yes highly likely he likes you. Pretty sure he thought it was a booty call. I’m a guy and would never skip sleep on a workday for a platonic friend unless it some sort of emergency or crisis.
I mean, if I could night drive I'd personally do it for a friend, but that's because of my own life, I don't think most people would do that for someone they weren't romantically interested in.
Also him not pressuring you for sex when you called him over late at night, and he probably did think this was a sex thing, is an obnoxiously good sign. It's probably worth at least bringing up, at least once he's gotten a full night's sleep :P
Most likely. Have you tried kissing? You should try kissing. Then you'll know.
Never make assumptions, if you like him, tell him and be clear about it.
That said, yes, he very probably does like you. Good luck!
I have a different take, as a woman who has not once in my life called a man at “u up?” hours, woken him from a dead slumber with an offer to come over, and then kept him up until 5 am playing video games and chatting:
In any culture that does not have strict religious guidelines, the interpretation would be that you booty called him. He woke up and came over because it seemed like you were offering a booty call. He was nice about it, but he told you he had things to do in the morning, and what you asked of him was an actual disruption to his day. He may like you, but what you did was inconsiderate.
If he is a good guy worthy of good relationships, what you did last night may well be unworthy of him. People are not play things to be called up and used to alleviate insomnia, especially when they make it known they have responsibilities the next day (something I’m sure would not have come up unless he was hinting at wanting to sleep) and you are content to have them stay up all night entertaining you instead.
In my mind, this goes one of two ways. Either he is happy to have the attention and still wants to pursue something with you, or you’ve just given him an ick. Whichever it is, that’s really for him to find out and relay to you, but I would apologize for keeping him up regardless, because I would’ve been annoyed in his place.
My response as a man, I agree that was 100% supposed to be a booty call.
But I wouldn’t consider it inconsiderate, if the things he had to do the next day were that important he wouldn’t have come over whether it was sex or not. I wouldn’t take this miss personally, but I wouldn’t expect a second totally platonic overnight hangout sesh if I was OP either lol.
I guess I mean inconsiderate as in OP did not consider the optics or have the situational awareness to parse the difference between the expectation she(?) set through her actions and the reality that came after?
But I agree with you, I don’t really think this will be a repeat situation. I’m more inclined to believe that if there was a potential romance going there this might’ve killed it.
This is so friggin cute. You two sound nice, hope you enjoy the blossoming romance!
Yes. I bet if you were sick he'd also jump at the opportunity to bed sit you because he's smitten.
Once that happens, not much asked of them is viewed as a burden, instead it's a joy even if it's unhealthy. Be careful not to end up exploiting such a person. It's a bit of a gift and a curse...well, IMO.
Yes he came over because he thought you wanted more than an platonic hangout. If you’re interested in him you should probably tell him that because he for sure is now under the assumption you aren’t into him
Yeah, he probably hoped it was a booty call, but is cool with waiting. The real test is how he behaves after having sex, if that’s something you both choose to do. Good luck and enjoy the ride!
If it was me yeah. But im loathe to not get good sleep. hanging out playing video games and chatting and such is not a thing I would not like to spend time doing though. Im heterosexual and I would spend a night like that with a guy friend if I could sleep the next day.
I don't see mention of your gender. But most likely yes.
What does it matter which Gender OP is. It doesnt
I thought only guys were this clueless...source am a guy but old enough to have collected years of stasticial evidence
Edit Fixed some typos
Legitimate question: are you stupid?
Legitimate answer: op isn't, but you most definitely are
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